"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Question re: Pimps vs. Players

DinoCassanova

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Let me first state one thing; I disapprove of the lifestyle and actions of men known as "pimps". I'm not talking about just using the term "pimp" to describe a player. You know what a player is obviously; you all are players. But I mean a man who really is a pimp. Who gets several girls together into a "stable" of sorts and works them, collecting most or in some cases even ALL of the cash they make doing what it is they do. And there are alot of female pimps working stables of other females too, always have been.

But my question is, if being a true player is tricky, which I think it is, and requires real solid game and years of practice, does anybody have any idea how the hell real pimps do what it is they do?? "Turning out" females ?? I mean , what game could these guys POSSIBLY spit, that is so smooth, what "routine" or "pattern" could they have so down pat, that they could make females want to "work" for them in that way , especially nowadays when any female who's actually willing to stoop to that level can run an Internet ad (if she knows where) and simply go "independent"??? I mean, I watched that documentary called American Pimp (it's a great flick by the way) ~ you can see a quote from it as my "signature" here in fact ~ but really I just don't get it. I have a hard enough time cold approaching girls !! Anybody have any ideas how the hell these guys do what they do?? Is/ are their routine(s) similar to a solid player's routine(s) ?? What's the deal with these guys?? Did they sell their souls for magical powers over females or what?? :confused:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SeldomSeen

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RE:

most female tricks come from a hard ass background. These arent college educated women from the suburbs we're talking about. Some of these women have been abused, have had men including their fathers walk out on them, have been sexually molested etc. And also keep in mind we arent talking 7's or 8's on the look scale but more like 3-5's when they take off their wigs and makeup. The opportunity to work the streets and make $400-$800 a week after the pimp gets his cut is more alluring than working as a clerk in a grocery store making 6.15 an hour. Pimps dont do anything special as far as running 'game' They just basically break it down to a woman like this: you're already fu**** for free so why not bring in some paper while you're at it: he'll get her the business and protection and she breaks him off 60 percent of the money.
 

So pimp its scary

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^^^ I agree

Now, the player side is more just a guy that uses his personality and 'game' to bring in as many chicks as he can, with complete disregard for the others feelings.
 
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