"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Question re losing weight

Stud No1

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Hey guys,

im in the situation where i want to lose a few lbs but also put on muscle. i certainly want to avoid losing any muscle in the process thats for sure.

im not really 'fat' at all but have got a bit of a double chin and belly that i would like to put to bed. i think i could achieve this in under a month with the right guidance


so tips please?

p.s. i drink alot of lucozade sport, is this bad? about 30g of carbs a bottle...


i was tihnkin about just doing a bit of light cardio a day along with my workouts (3 times a week) and eat very little - fruit and vegs and maybe a little chicken and 2 shakes of whey protein a day. would this be feasible?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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HandyAndy

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Read the "Where to Start" post in the Health section.

It has a great program in there, I gained 25lbs on the bench press in about a month.
 

Rampage1

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In fairness he didn't ask if you could help him gain 25lbs on his benchpress!

He asked if for Diet suggestions on how to cut fat! I would say to eat 5 or 6 small meals a day, low in carbs high in protein and keep up with the weight training and do intense cardio on off days!

But I am not the diet master and indeed other posters will need this clarified

Regards,

Quinton
 

Stud No1

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Rampage1 said:
In fairness he didn't ask if you could help him gain 25lbs on his benchpress!

He asked if for Diet suggestions on how to cut fat! I would say to eat 5 or 6 small meals a day, low in carbs high in protein and keep up with the weight training and do intense cardio on off days!

But I am not the diet master and indeed other posters will need this clarified

Regards,

Quinton

cheers bro!!
 

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careful with the 'eating very little'. less than 1200-1500 calories and your body will go into starvation mode, esp. if you're not very active.

also, careful with the denial -- 'i'm not fat, i just have a double chin' etc etc. who are you fooling? yourself? you have bodyfat to lose, that's difficult, so saying 'it's not that bad & should only take a month to fix' is not the most helpful starting point.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Stud No1

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Throttle said:
careful with the 'eating very little'. less than 1200-1500 calories and your body will go into starvation mode, esp. if you're not very active.

also, careful with the denial -- 'i'm not fat, i just have a double chin' etc etc. who are you fooling? yourself? you have bodyfat to lose, that's difficult, so saying 'it's not that bad & should only take a month to fix' is not the most helpful starting point.
LOL @ the denial part i was just saying im no where near what you would call fat my double chin only appears when i tilt my head down. yes thats excess fat but im not fat and if i lost more than 5lbs id be losing muscle
 
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