Question for naturals/people who game outside of bars and clubs

[Exhumed]

Where/How did you meet the last 3 women you slept with, and how do you stay outgoing throughout the day?

The guys who hook up the most seem to be the ones who walk with a confident stride and talk to any girl they're interested in all day long. Probably much like many of you who are not getting any, I see cute girls everywhere I go (I'm a freshman at a large college so, literally, everywhere) but I never see opportunities come my way...I'm sure they're hidden in plain sight

 

[thecurtainfalls]

Exhumed, you need to make the opportunities. You're a freshman at a large college. Also known as the single best location for meeting attractive single girls on the planet. So no excuses there.

Different guys will give you different opinions on this, but I am a HUGE proponent of "social circle" game. It will work well in a college environment as well. Start making friends - with NO ulterior motives. Guys and girls. Be outgoing, but not try-hard or creepy. Ask people questions about themselves to get them to open up to you and get them to feel like you add value to their lives. Don't turn things into an interview, but do show active listening and an ability to be genuinely interested in other people.

Once you've got a good circle of friends going, they will without fail start to introduce you to other people, bring you to parties, etc. Voila - instant SOCIAL PROOF (if you don't know what this is, look it up - it's absolutely priceless and its importance cannot be overstated). This has been the cornerstone of my game for many years now. I'd break down my game as 75% social circle and 25% cold approaches.

It sounds like you're a little hesitant in general because you mentioned opportunities not "coming your way". Well, let me do you a small favor here and let you know that when it comes to most of the good things in life, unless you were born an incredibly lucky SOB, you need to make your own luck/opportunities. Don't be afraid of failure, because it's part of the game. If you're not willing to risk falling flat on your face, you also won't get any sweet 18 year old vag. Risk vs. reward...

Good luck.

 

[escaleraroyal]

my 3 last girls i banged were:
landlady, cousin's wife younger sister, hairsalon girl.

 

[Exhumed]

I have a pretty decent number of friends but only a few are girls...I'm pledging a fraternity, i've made friends through that but they're dudes, though i'm sure the parties and socials will be fun....I guess I've sort of settled into the situation, I haven't made any new friends in a while besides the at my fraternity. Thanks for setting me on track guys.

 

[NSUballer]

The first thing is you should never go after any girl purely for sex. It puts alot of pressure on your ego and makes you vulnerable to acting needy, too agressive, basically unnatural.

Pursue women like you just want to talk to them and get to know who they are. Listen to what they say and use that to your advantage.

College is the best place ever to develop yourself as a man. First off, hit the gym 4 days a week. Great place to meet girls. The library on campus. Dorms. apartments. All the most sensible places to meet girls.