"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is it possible to make "subsections" on these forums? possibly a subsection under Health and Fitness mainly for diet, one mainly for routines/exercises etc?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Skilla_Staz said:
Is it possible to make "subsections" on these forums? possibly a subsection under Health and Fitness mainly for diet, one mainly for routines/exercises etc?
seconded!

I think a split between weight training/cardio, nutrition, and general health would be appropriate. Or sports-specific forums as well.
 

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Good idea, would make stuff a lot easier
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Warboss Alex said:
I think a split between weight training/cardio, nutrition, and general health would be appropriate. Or sports-specific forums as well.
you mean we could talk with guys who want to learn more about lifting or losing bodyfat w/o having to read about penis problems (or worse)? brilliant!

though I think nutrition & exercise go hand-in-hand......
 

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Throttle said:
you mean we could talk with guys who want to learn more about lifting or losing bodyfat w/o having to read about penis problems (or worse)? brilliant!

though I think nutrition & exercise go hand-in-hand......
they do, but they're both very broad topics which deserve a sub-forum of their own! they would complement each other.
 

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Haha, we'll have a masturbation subforum, an acne subforum... :D
I would imagine they would leave that one alone lol


Health & Fitness
- Routines and Exercises
- Nutrition
- General Discussion

would seem to be a good layout?

This way we wouldn't have to sort through the endless "i have a pimple and now its a chicken, what do i do?" threads. those can be left for the general discussion section. Those who are interested in diet, bam. Those interested in exercise? Bam.
 

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rathar tehn that, I would suggest a topic catagory selection for this. seperating threads into forums is a great way in splitting apart potential posters.

example:

Health & Fitness
  • Routines and Exercises
  • Nutrition
  • General Discussion

aside from the fact that the parent forum should be for general discussion, I would not visit the nutriotion forum as often as the routines forum. for some people, they will never venture into the subforums.

howeever, with a thread prefix or graphical thread prefix, threads will be easily distinguishafiable(yes my spelling sucks).

[Exercise] am i going too heavy?
[exercise] how can i spot-reduce?
[nutriotion] do strawberries make my butt bigger?
[exercise] best time to go to the gym


edit: secondly, mods do not have the ability to add forums, only superadmins do.
 

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it's worth a shot. I believe people would visit the nutrition section more often than you think when they realize how important it is.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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