"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Question for all you DJ's

lifesfun

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Hey guys I been debating this in my head for months and I need someone with more experience to help me out.
How do people start going out with each other normally in high school. I'm tired making girls feel horny for no reason, how do get into a relationship with a girl, where do you escalate with a girl you met in school. I have finally been able to make girls attracted to me, I know that a few girls like me there friends told me so... so how do you hookup with a girl from school when there are no parties or dances.<-( this is were my only success has been in escalating with a girl has been). do you hook up at school, go on a date to hookup, or what? :confused: Where do you guys escalate with girls, where have your first hookups been with girls you've met at school? Tell me any experience you guys got on this!:cool:
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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alright I'll tell you my experience thats actually happening to me right now. So on saturday, me and some new friends ( guys and girls ) went to the movies. one of the girls invited a friend from a diff highschool that I've never seen before. so her friend starts talkin to me on the bus to the theater and then we end up sittin beside eachother during the movie. we talked throughout the whole movie, I made her laugh/giggle as much as I could. near the end of the movie i took out my ticket to check to see if it had how long the movie was on it and she grabbed it away from me and wrote her msn down on it ( that was a freakin good sign right there ) so I add her on msn after the movies and the next day I find out she likes me. we've been talking all week and tomorrow she's coming to my school's football homegame and we're all watching it together. I plan to ask her out after the game. but I've already been told she wants to go out with me....

so in my experience, just act yourself...be calm and cool and make em laugh/giggle a bit...if you can pull off some charm like I did, you should have no problem.

edit: alright good news! my schools team wont he game AND me and the girl are going out now =]
 
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