"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Question about logical resistance

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ghostrider943

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Well yesterday I was just about to leave class and I noticed she was watching me as I was about to head out the door. We never connected but today she sent me an email with all this logical resistance: "I dont know you" "I have a boyfriend" "This really should stop". The point is she is saying stuff but her body is telling me different things. I have other examples of body language but im not going to elaborate.

What should I send her through my email? Should I just say something like yeah I understand you're not comfortable with me. I rather talk in person than through email to avoid miscommunication. I just want to talk to you to get to know you better(we go to different schools) and you can introduce me to your friends.

Our status: We havent dated, she has interest
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You need to ease her, because she is fighting her attraction to you.
You can t come on too strong befroe you know how to calibrate it.
I would be a little warm and use a little bit of humor to set her at ease.
Don't go too far off into the sexual stuff, becasue she is fighting her programming.

And dont be unmasculine or non sexual. In other words, you cant go into Comfort stage right now. You cant.
You have to calibrate this. You need to send her only short messages and let HER fill in the blanks and let her show you what SHE needs.

This is tough.

BUT..you need to understand this will take time, and MUST be well calibrated at every stage of this interaction.

She looks likes shes ready to branch jump.
You may be that guy for her.

But remember, dont be so desperate to jump in to this if youre not really attracted and most of all, INTERESTED in her.

Things get tough real quick when youre desperate for a piece of ass.
Remember, you must keep in focus her value and her dignity as a woman.
Do not see her as a quick piec of ass.You are NO JUDGE. You have no right to JUDGE her.
Do not go for her ONLY because she is appeasing your Ego.
 
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You must be a troll. Probably looks at you cause youre reaching stalker status.
 
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