"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Question about AMOGing

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lol

win over the men and the women are yours apparently

but sometimes i guess the 'AMOG' isnt worth disarming (i.e. too much bother or maybe the girl isnt worth it...your call).

if violence is probable id walk away
 

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yeah I have had a few times where the guys were very close to getting physical. If they were directly coming at me I suppose I would just try and walk away if it came down to it. I have had my share of fights but now that I'm more about the game I have a higher purpose, so it makes it easier for me to walk away, no pride... its just like getting blown off or rejected by a girl, just move on, it wasn't personal. those guys were just retarded and apparently REALLY wanted to throw a few punches then get tackled by all the security guards at the bar looking like a total douche and then eventually get arrested and booked and deal with the law, and as you're driving away in the back of a cop car you see all the hotties laughing at the entertainment you gave them.... sounds fun.


....I'm not sure what really the best ways to deal with them are... be confident and hold your ground.
Last night I had two incidents of AMOG sort of.
One a birthday girl was having a private party at a club and they rented out an entire room... me and my friend just went in anyhow and the birthday girl liked us and started buying us drinks, she had a table of about 6 big ass dudes who were all competing for her, and when I started taking pics with her they were trying anything to tool me, yelling and trying to dog on me... I just COMPLETELY ignored them and kept smiling and talking to her like they didn't even exist. She loved it and I got introduced to all her friends and pulled a number of her friend...

then we went to a second bar and I opened a 2 set and talking for awhile and when some other guy came up that had been gaming them earlier or something (or maybe he knew them) they tried to introduce him to me and I totally ignored that and kept talking to her, didn't look at him once. So he totally got choded out of the conversation and it was me and the girls just talking.

I don't mind being cool to guys, like when being introduced or whatever, but for some reason this time i just acted that way and it was perfectly fine.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I usually never fear the guys who become all uppity and wanna fight. 99% of the time, they'll ***** down once they see you dont care and when they realize they're being herbs about it and making themselves look ridiculous.

That and most of them can't fight anyway.
 

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AMOG-ing is a such useful skill, if only because there are so many idiots out there who don't mind walking over you to get theirs. and it's useful everywhere, not just when macking - school, the workplace, whatever

the best kind of AMOG techniques are the ones that lower the other guys' value without direct confrontation. like because of the AMOG, the social context is they can't win so they should just give up. he shouldn't feel like you wanna fight him. he should just feel like he's got no value next to you

if the other guy wants to fight, there are tricks to defuse him, but I can't remember them right now. but the social context is, the cooler you are, the less prone to violence you are, because some idiot herbing you just doesn't bother you as much as it would some dude that's insecure. as an example, I know it's just a movie, but the scene in Swingers where that one dude pulls out his gun and ends up looking like moron. meanwhile the other guy makes friends with them and his value goes way up
 

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I assume 99% of this stuff happens in bars/clubs?

I think these people are also called "haters". They have such low self worth, they hate on any guy who is gaming a chick.

I plan on taking Judo once I get some more money, so I am more confident in dealing with these idiots.
 

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mahon83050 said:
I plan on taking Judo once I get some more money, so I am more confident in dealing with these idiots.
you don't physically deal with these idiots... that would make you an idiot too.


avoid fights at all costs unless its obvious you have no way out, or have extreme reason why you should cause that person physical harm other then your pride.
 

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Randallpink83 said:
you don't physically deal with these idiots... that would make you an idiot too.


avoid fights at all costs unless its obvious you have no way out, or have extreme reason why you should cause that person physical harm other then your pride.
I am not a violent person, however what if one of these idiots gets physical with me first?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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AMOGing is not about fighting. If guy is AMOGing you and you take it personally and want to fight him or think he wants to fight you, you're just a low life beta male b1tch.


He just got you. Engaged your rational brain. Death. Bye bye.
 

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Alright thanks guys

While going out today i had a few problems with some AMOGs and I applied some of the AMOGing skill i knew, 2/2 walked away, it was kind of a slow night for me...but im learning.
 

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Would you recommend these AMOGing tactics in a college/high school setting?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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jdawgmcb said:
Would you recommend these AMOGing tactics in a college/high school setting?


That's a wrong type of question. Either you're AMOGing or you getting AMOGed. Simpliest is establishing your dominance. Monkeys do it by fighting each other and using bluf charges. Humans do it by out alphaing you. Anything from eye contact, to body language.

Example: you catch EC with a guy and look away first. He is alpha, you're beta.

There is a whole set of things that go with being alpha. Those that prevent you from looking at every guy and making him look away first, that's crazy. Along with other things. There is an entire inner and outer alpha game.

Women are attracted to alpha males.


Another example you could find in college. A tall black guy with big afro hair sits right in front of you, blocking your view. What you do? Nothing, you're a beta male. Move, you're a beta male. Get pissed off and upset, you're a beta male.
 

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You just have to not give a ****. Once you're sex starved enough girls are on your mind ,and you know what a lot of big guys act tough but are really wimpy.
 
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