"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My goal with girls is just to have fun and f*** them, i'm not into serious commitment yet. I'm 22. I'm a good-looking guy, tall, well built also, but i'm a 100% introvert and therefore very quiet and probably a boring person. There's a chick from my college that i've been making out with for a month now. Like every weekend we've been going out to club or pub and she acted really sexual with me, dancing hot and initiated the kisses etc, we've had fun. But the last night to my surprise she acted strangely cold with me. while dancing she didn't touch me, although i touched her alot. I tried to kiss but she turned her head away. And she spent more time with her club girlfriends than me, I was left with my buddies like a fagget :) I'm a sensitive person and this is really bringing me down. I wonder what could be the cause for her behaviour. Damn, I'd really like to score with this one, she's so sweet. any advises?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My guess is that when she gave you the green light and you didn't make a move she got turned off because she probably considered it weak.
 
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classyguy is right. Basically, you took too long, so she decided to move on since nothing was going to happen.
 
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Yes i believe you'r right. I forgot to mention I once slept next to her at her place, but i didn't try anything serios cuz my condition was really bad (drunk), and so was she. I suppose I still should have ***** her, even though it's more of a chore if you're not feeling well while doing it. ok what the hell..the sea is full of fishes, I think i need more women in my life.
 
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