"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Putting a friend(beta) back in his place?

ElStud

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Okay, so here's what happens. We're all suited up ready to go out tonight, when this one friend starts being a ****, punching me for no reason. So for a little bit I try to laugh it off, then the dude keeps doing. I wasn't really in the fighting mood so I didn't really fight back.

Anyway, this dude seems to think he's pretty alpha, but he's pretty much a p*ssy(When he knows you have the upper hand, he just runs away like a faggot). How do I put this friend back in his place to make sure he doesn't ever do any stupid sh*t like this again? Should I just kick his ass the next time I see him till he realizes he f*cked up or what?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Black.Magic

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Just publicly humiliate him. Make sure there are girls in the set, then wait till he says something provocative/punches you, and say something like, "I guess SOMEBODY wasn't loved enough as a child!" then proceed to punch him in the arm, throwing all your weight behind the punch, and give him the mother of all dead arms. Then He'll have a reminder all night of why you don't **** with your friends.
 
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It's simple. One warning. "Hit me again and I'll drop you like a hot spud". If he does it again drop him like a hot spud. Or you could head down the path of getting pushed around your whole life. NEVER EVER back down unless it's absolutely necessary EVEN if you're gonna get you ass kicked. Only time you back down is if you're outnumbered or said person has a weapon of some sort that'll make it very uneven.
 

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ElStud said:
Okay, so here's what happens. We're all suited up ready to go out tonight, when this one friend starts being a ****, punching me for no reason. So for a little bit I try to laugh it off, then the dude keeps doing. I wasn't really in the fighting mood so I didn't really fight back.

Anyway, this dude seems to think he's pretty alpha, but he's pretty much a p*ssy(When he knows you have the upper hand, he just runs away like a faggot). How do I put this friend back in his place to make sure he doesn't ever do any stupid sh*t like this again? Should I just kick his ass the next time I see him till he realizes he f*cked up or what?

First warn the beta grasshopper that you are a full fledged Alpha-Fu practitioner at dojo So Suave with personal insider training from Master Pook on how to kill a man with the nimble typing finger of Kino death.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ladyzman

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A beta wouldn't affect an Alpha like this "beta" has obviously upset you. Neither would a beta pick on an alpha like this guy was o v iously picking on you. But I know what you might be feeling. I've been at low states before (your alpha may not have been fully on, cause no one ****s with you when you're in full alpha mode) and have had these types (dont know what they are) They're like hyenas and they like to **** with people when they're at their weakest (so can't call em alphas, right on that). Best recourse is to ignore them. Don't react. In other words, treat em like *****es.. I mean girls. Which makes negging a possible recourse.
 

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I would ignore him completely--pretend he does not exist. If he continues, I would grab him by the warm with a tight grip and speak up "dude, I'm only going to tell you this once. You are being childish--you punch me one more time I'm going to put you to sleep. You understand?" If that clown keeps going, do it silverback gorilla style and show him who is the boss.

Watch this: video
 

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bigneil said:
Posting about women is bad enough... but men???

Agreed, bfd if this dude is hitting your arm. Hes probably just messing around with you. Put your foot down and don't be a little girl about **** and don't go *****ing to a bunch of dudes on a website about how your annoyed. Real men don't *****, only girls do.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why not just be cool about it and play with him back?

you know... like friends do? why immediately go to "anger" ?
 

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Just use two fingers and poke him in a sensitive area like Cesar Milan would do. That's what I always do. You don't even have to use much force.

For example, a while back a guy in the club had his hand too close to my crotch, so I poked him in the neck. Another guy last week sat next to me and jammed his elbow into my thigh, and then I poked him under his ribs. Works like a charm.

I don't even resort to anger. I just poke them and then I carry on with my business. :)
 

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Just tell him "bro were going out to pick up chicks you have to get your mind right your acting like a tool"
 

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To be honest if someone did this consistently even though you asked for them to stop then they don't respect you at all. So there's two things that I would do depending on my mood.

1. Charge the homie to the game and just don't associate with him.

2. Beat the crap at him.

Again this would be my two options because I will always be respected. ALWAYS.
 
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