"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Long time lurker, new poster here - took the red pill a year or so ago, and have been astounded at how much better life is now! Still working on things, but been spinning plates with great success.

Been seeing one plate a few weeks, she drops hints about becoming more serious, I ignore them or tell her I am not interested in a relationship. Decided to give her a couple of weeks to cool down, but a week or so after last seeing her, she text me:

"It is obvious you do not want to see me any more, that's fine, I need a real man who is interested in me as a person. Goodbye"

The old blue pill me would have panicked, felt rejected, but I decided to just ignore this whiny BS. I told myself, She'll be back, even though I didn't fuly believe it ... but sure enough, she followed the script, and today she texts.

"Amazing! You didn't even respond. Well as it happens, I was really enjoying out time together and really liked you but I guess you don't feel the same."

The pushy, whinging messages have put me right off her and I'm probably going to just go ghost on this one, but was curious what others here would do? After all, she's ok to hang out with and is always up for fVcking, but I can't be bothered with drama.

Next her?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TELL her, " I don't DO drama, and won't have it in my life. IF you can't abide by that rule, you can leave" It won't get rid of it, but it will reduce it... or she leaves
 
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Well funnily enough, "I don't do drama" was a response i'd been considering, so I tried it after the reply above, and got a third text, this time the most dramatic of the three. So now I go ghost. Cheers guys :) Living life on your own terms really is liberating, isn't it?
 
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