push and pull to basic conversation

[jhonny9546]

HI, We know the push and pull technique, to apply to our conversations with women.
For example: "Your dress is so cute, it suits you very well! The same can't be said about your shoes..."


Now, how do you apply push and pull to all the daily life conversations we have with people, regarding leisure, work, sports, gossip themes, etc etc? I'm sure that making this technique a strong point can make you a truly fun person, and remove that "negativity" of being too much serious. (without exaggerating of course)

ps: which are other techniques to master in order to get your conversation skills to the next level?

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

To me push pull is simply about general behavior not so much minute to minute conversations. For instance suddenly filling up your schedule and being "unavailable" for 2 weeks then coming back with a strong impression, then repeating something similar later on (not even necessarily on purpose).

Why would you purposely push pull in a convo anyway? Viewing this in such a "gamey" way seems autistic.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

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For me, initiating or keeping a conversation flowing has never been an issue.

However, for those that struggle with this and/or would like to seem more interesting to a woman based off conversation alone, here is a strategy..and I'd like to think this technique is mines, all MINES.

I guess I'll call this the "Fire Away" or "Fire Off" strategy lol.

The strategy is simple; to fire off a bunch of questions to her, questions that most people either..

A. Already have an opinion on..

B. Are undecided because they never thought about it, and are forced to suddenly think about it and make a choice.

This can be fun, and can open the door for even more stimulating conversation(s), all in the midst of getting to know someone better.

If you and a chick are on your first date at Applebee's, everyone will look at your table like "damn, those two are having a good time".

The Fire Off questions will go a little something like this..

Starbursts or Skittles? (let her answer)

Snickers or Reese's Cups? (let her answer)

Pepsi or Coke? (let her answer)

Mountain Dew or Sprite? (let her answer)

McDonald's or Burger King? (let her answer)

Taylor Swift or Rihanna? (let her answer)

Stevie Wonder or Elton John? (let her answer)

and so on and so forth..

This strategy is great for a first date, and each question can lead to a 5 minute conversation, depending on how deep the two of you take it.

She will leave the date, thinking "I like this guy".

Trust me.