"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Pulled muscle on side

Young OG

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At least 3 weeks ago, I must have pulled a muscle on my right side. It runs from my waist up to almost my arm pit. I guess you could say its on the side of the rib cage. I think I hurt it either shoulder pressing or benching to much. It hurts when I'm sitting down, but otherwise I can't feel it. The pain was a lot worse the first week. But, not its been around 3 weeks and I still have pain when I'm sitting down. I haven't been working out at all while its been hurt either.

Should I see a doctor? How much longer is this pain going to stay around? Is there anything I can do to treat it at home? I would really like to get back into the gym. I don't want to throw away all the gains I've made in the last year.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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