Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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PUA Movies/Music

VdoubleR

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Hello, guys.

I've been visiting this website for about 2 months and recently decided to join. I've learned a lot thanks to this great place.

For my first thread I would like to ask for your favorite DJ/PUA movies and music.

1)Which films would you recommend to get some inspiration?
Movie that talks about picking up chicks or one in which a character is a PUA.

2) Which songs do you listen to to get you into the DJ/PUA mentality?
You know, like a song that while, or after you listen to it, it makes you want to approach all the chicks you see.

Thanks in advance,

-VdoubleR
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Im going to generalize here for you. I would watch/listen to anything that gets you pumped up. That means music with a fast beat that doesn't have afc lyrics (most music these days are).

Im a big James Bond fan. He is smooth, but realize that it is all a fictional reality. Everything you will watch will be that way. So i don't really suggest you watch things to show you how to pick up women, but that doesn't mean you wont get inspiration. My point is you can watch a movie like die hard (not many women in it) and i think the action and stuff will get you in the mood to get out more than watching some **** like the notebook.

Just do whatever puts you in your best mood. Watch whatever that will make you feel confident when you go out. Then i truly believe you will get the most sucess
 

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Pathgen said:
Im a big James Bond fan. He is smooth, but realize that it is all a fictional reality. Everything you will watch will be that way. So i don't really suggest you watch things to show you how to pick up women
I understand what you mean about fictional reality and yeah, learning from a movie is not my goal. I just want to watch a few films that talk about this topic and that might give me a bit of inspiration. A movie that comes to mind is "Hitch". I thought it was a good PUA movie. James Bond is awesome, I hope the new Bond film is great, too.

-VdoubleR
 

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San Jose California said:
if someone makes one it'll probably be Mystery, Style, one of those famous pickup artists.
I would definitely watch a film based on the Mystery Method or Style's book.

-VdoubleR
 

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I'll give my thoughts on movies and TV shows

anything James Bond

Christian Troy (played by Julian McMahon) on the show Nip/Tuck - good show and he pulls tons of pvssy. Shows are great because you get many examples.

Sawyer on the show LOST


WallStreet - Michael Douglas

Devils Advocate - Al Pacino

Heat - Robert De Niro

Pulp Fiction - The Wolf

9 1/2 weeks - character of Mickey Rourke - haven't seen the movie in a while but I'm pretty sure he is a great example - he keeps her teased and interested

Bull Durham - Kevin Costner

The Girl Next Door - Timothy Olyphant

Guilty as Sin - Don Johnson

Cruel Intentions

Malice - Alec Baldwin

Indecent Proposal - Robert Redford
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i think this thread has been done to death..

the same movies pop up each time:
- hitch
- alfie
- fight club
- swingers
- james bond
- top gun


but here's one of my favourites: JUST FRIENDS starring ryan reynolds lol
 

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the new movie Sex Drive, theres a supporting actor in it, who just cracks me up with his DJ moves and attitude.

ex: At a barn dance, he sees a girl he likes, so he starts dancing with his friend (whos a girl) to get that girls attention, and it works.

lots of DJ references in that movie I was surprised.
 

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Fight club. hands down is the best movie. For starters you have the genius of confidence that is tyler durden, it shows you how to be confident, smart, and witty showing good qualities without showing problems. But also watching jacks transformation is incredible... and he becomes a little more like tyler with each clip.

Great acting.

However, if you want PRATICAL aplication, watch this... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JCja8Alj488 . tis rather solid for advice, if you already know the basics. Watching this pretty much doubled my sucess btw... cause I finally was able to put alot of the skills and ideas together.
 

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the new movie Sex Drive, theres a supporting actor in it, who just cracks me up with his DJ moves and attitude.

ex: At a barn dance, he sees a girl he likes, so he starts dancing with his friend (whos a girl) to get that girls attention, and it works.

lots of DJ references in that movie I was surprised.
Yeah sex drive was one of the greatest movies i thought i have seen in a long time. I was laughing harder than 99% of the comedies that are put out their today.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I've heard a lot about about "Sex Drive". I should check it out and see if it's really as great as my friends say.

One of my friends told me about "Wedding Crashers" saying that both main characters display the traits of a PUA. I haven't seen it yet.

A song that I listen to and it makes me feel like I can do anything (including gaming all the HBs in a 100-mile circumference) is:
Lux Aeterna (Requiem for a Dream) By: Clint Mansell.
Such a powerful and inspiring piece of art.

-VdoubleR
 
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