"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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PUA mentality

BadAss

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This is my first post in here.. This post will be a bit long but it's full of motivational stuff
I don't consider myself a master don juan but I've learned some stuff to get my mentality going. Firstly, I see a lot of people talking about reading signs from girls and acting upon them. That's complete bull****! PUA mentality is you get what YOU WANT. You see an attractive girl you want to seduce... You go for it. You don't try to make eye contact with her.. All of the successful PUA couldn't care less about eye contact. They just go for what they want. You should also understand that going intanstly for what you want shows you have the confidence to do so and women you approach like that will APPREICIATE it more. You'll convey your attitude to her.. She'll think to herself "Who's this guy who approached me instantly without giving a ****.. he must have a lot of confidence" So let go of the signs you are given by women.. Don't give a f***. Now I want to discuss about compensation. Do you know that blind guys have a superior hearing ability because god compensates for there blidness.. They develop superior hearing abilities so they can survive like any other people. Same goes for seducing. You may think you are ugly and not a stud. But you should know you can develop SUPERIOR seducing techniques in order to "survive" like the other studs out there and have all the sex you want. It's called compensation. It's something very powerful to understand. So stop whining about not looking like brad pit and go outside to get some seducing techinques going for you! You can have as much as sex as you want like anyone else because god COMPENSATES!
hope this helps someone out there.
Peace!

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I'm a badass and you know it!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Consent

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Yeah, going up and taking charge gives the best results
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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I've realized from this post the problem with guys who can't sarge online; they always play defense. They want to see signs from the woman and then (re)act to them.

Just like badass said, a PUA goes for it. He is quarterback running offencive plays. He can easily read the defense (her friends, her sh1t tests, her b1tch shield), call an audible and progress down the field. He doesn't throw the long bomb every play, he knows how to take a methodical approach to march down the field. He's in control. :up:
 
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