"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

proper number of days rest with weights

Joined
Mar 6, 2003
Messages
60
Reaction score
0
What's the proper number of days to have off between workouts with weights for the upper body (shoulders, chest, bi's, tri's, forearms, lats, traps)?

Then what is the proper number of days off between workouts for ab-work.

I'm trying to cut bodyfat while also increasing muscle. When starting back up months ago I was only lifting every third day while doing cardio about 5 or 6 days a week and was getting good initial results. I tried taking it to the next level, lifting monday, wednesday, friday with cardio about 4 or 5 days a week and abs about 6 days a week. This seemed to be effective too but it seems like the bi's have peeked and my bodyfat seems to be going back up plus the tendonitis in my elbows is back to making the popping noises (which is why i stopped lifting weights a few years ago as they got very noisey and painful). So far they are not yet painful but are once again gettin that scarey sounding noise as if tearing.

Anyone got a good tricept exercise that works them hard without so much strain on the tendons in the elbows like with tricept extensions or heavy bench pressing?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

whoami

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 7, 2003
Messages
123
Reaction score
0
Age
45
, friday with cardio about 4 or 5 days a week and abs about 6 days a week.
1. cardio for at least 20 minutes ... about 3-4 days...
2. don't do abs 6 days a week... if u want to get the abs then proper diet plz.
3.workout(lift) about 4-5 days per week not daily ...if u r only looking to get fit...
4. never do cardio after lifting
5. Diet plz
my normal work out:
monday:
Shoulders n thighs
tue:
Chest and back sometime abs or abs in the morning
wed:
arms and thighs
thur and friday:
repeat the above but keep changing routine...

i do cardio in morning in form of shadow boxing, that takes more than 20 minutes

Anyone got a good tricept exercise that works them hard without so much strain on the tendons in the elbows like with tricept extensions or heavy bench pressing?
try forum.bodybuilding.com for exercises...

WhoAmI
 

Lost Cause

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 31, 2003
Messages
141
Reaction score
0
Age
46
Location
Newport Beach
If you're trying to get some defined muscle mass, I would work each body part ONCE per week. But work it really hard. 12 sets per body part, failing on the 8-10th rep. That's all you need. You're gonna kill your muscles doing each part 3 times a week.
 
Top