"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Prom - ********

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Potbelly

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hello friends. I have a simple problem here.

1) I have gone to 1 dance with this girl previously
2) I asked a girl to prom.
3) She said, "she might not be going"
4) I asked for a reason
5) She said she didn't feel she could find a dress she looked good in.

I have a strong feeling that this was ******** for letting me down easy. Let me hear what you guys think so I can confirm this once and for all. Thanks in advance to all DJs. :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJ4Real

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Potbelly said:
hello friends. I have a simple problem here.

1) I have gone to 1 dance with this girl previously
2) I asked a girl to prom.
3) She said, "she might not be going"
4) I asked for a reason
5) She said she didn't feel she could find a dress she looked good in.

I have a strong feeling that this was ******** for letting me down easy. Let me hear what you guys think so I can confirm this once and for all. Thanks in advance to all DJs. :)
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A woman who really aspired to go to prom with you would have put on ANY dress to go with you.

So yes, I believe she let you down.
 
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Potbelly

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Thanks DJ4Real. I'm disappointed, but I can't let that stop me. It's crunch time and I'll ask around more.

Cheers :)
 
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