Prolonging sexual interest

[oldmanofthesea]

My experience with women has been that they have an extremely intense desire to have a lot of sex in the days and weeks immediately following our first sexual encounter. In the days immediately after sex, I've been told the same thing by a number of women in words like, "it hit the spot and my body is aching for more," followed by additional compliments about how great it was.

I don't consider myself to be any better or worse than the next guy in bed, but I've only ever been in my own skin and observed my own experiences. I've just assumed that this pattern fits into some sort of biological mating scheme deeply implanted in women's brains.

The issue I find is that after the newness of the sex wears off.... usually around 4-6 weeks, the girls lose interest. It could be a number of reasons, many of which could be non-sexual, such as not being enough of a challenge, being too available, etc. All things I'm working on after discovering TRP, but I wanted to hear about your experience here: Do you experience the same behavior from women early in the relationship where they crave sex so much they actually admit it to you, and if so, do you pace yourself in the amount of sex you give them in order to maintain that strong desire (and if so, does it work)? Or do you find that having sex nearly every time you see them keeps the drive going so long as you stay a challenge and play the game properly? Or something else I haven't thought of?

 

[wifehunter]

Learn what attraction is, and how it works.

 

[oldmanofthesea]

Sure, I get that. But rather than try to analyze any of the thousands of things I could be doing wrong or right, I'm specifically looking to see if other guys experience women having the same sexual appetite in the weeks after the first sexual encounter, and if so, if they leverage this somehow as part of their strategy.

 

[Spaz]

My experience with women has been that they have an extremely intense desire to have a lot of sex in the days and weeks immediately following our first sexual encounter. In the days immediately after sex, I've been told the same thing by a number of women in words like, "it hit the spot and my body is aching for more," followed by additional compliments about how great it was.

I don't consider myself to be any better or worse than the next guy in bed, but I've only ever been in my own skin and observed my own experiences. I've just assumed that this pattern fits into some sort of biological mating scheme deeply implanted in women's brains.

The issue I find is that after the newness of the sex wears off.... usually around 4-6 weeks, the girls lose interest. It could be a number of reasons, many of which could be non-sexual, such as not being enough of a challenge, being too available, etc. All things I'm working on after discovering TRP, but I wanted to hear about your experience here: Do you experience the same behavior from women early in the relationship where they crave sex so much they actually admit it to you, and if so, do you pace yourself in the amount of sex you give them in order to maintain that strong desire (and if so, does it work)? Or do you find that having sex nearly every time you see them keeps the drive going so long as you stay a challenge and play the game properly? Or something else I haven't thought of?

Women age 22-26 has high urges and I think it's normal, some demanded my performance at a minimum 4x per week.

I think you should keep it at a maximum 3 X per week after 3 months.

And most importantly, do some crazy stuff in bed, in the car, on the car, in the waterfall/river, hotel rooms, in your office, in the unlikeliest places. Even the most conservative woman will be turned on and can expect to have an adventure with you.

I'm mostly into soft bondage stuff and they all enjoyed it immensely even when they say they don't want it.

 

[oldmanofthesea]

And most importantly, do some crazy stuff in bed, in the car, on the car, in the waterfall/river, hotel rooms, in your office, in the unlikeliest places. Even the most conservative woman will be turned on and can expect to have an adventure with you.

I'm mostly into soft bondage stuff and they all enjoyed it immensely even when they say they don't want it.

Good input - I need to mix it up more instead of just doing it at my place vs hers.

 

[Mazer]

I had one of my plates tell me on our last sex session, that me, rubbing her ****, wasn't doing it for her. The first three weeks of us having sex, her vag was gushing constantly. She said she might be overworked which was probably causing the dryness. She also mentioned that she was going to town with her toys before she saw me. Anyway, she asked if I had any lube she can use. Sure, I keep a tube in my back pocket at all times. Lol.

My sexual appetite has actually diminished a little bit. Its what happens when you keep banging the same vag for over six weeks. You can switch things up but eventually its going to get boring.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Once you get someone used to ****ing and they are addicted you can keep it going literally forever. The only thing that can stop it is friends in her ear or something like that. If she likes you enough she won't allow it. Keep enough fun memories of you doing stuff together, stuff to look forward to to keep her close to you. She shouldn't need to run to her friends for an "adventure".

 

[Roober]

Been with my lady about 14 months and we still fvck like rabbits, 1-3 times a day...

Learn to fvck and treat her like a woman and your problems will cease to exist... time to hop in the shower... with her...

 

[Trump]

Do you experience the same behavior from women early in the relationship where they crave sex so much they actually admit it to you,

No. I experience the same behaviour from women LATE in the relationship. Once it’s late in the relationship, they want it every freaking day. Early is when they EXTREMELY resist

do you pace yourself in the amount of sex you give them in order to maintain that strong desire (and if so, does it work)?

The amount of sex they give you has nothing to do with desire.

Or do you find that having sex nearly every time you see them keeps the drive going so long as you stay a challenge and play the game properly?

Sex has nothing to do with keeping the drive going.