"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Project Soulsinger

SamRi72

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Being a scientist by nature, I love to experiment 24/7. Now that I'm in the game (Sarge Week 7) I got a new idea to up the ante to a stagnant plate I've been looking to bend to whims or break. Cold, calculated game.

This plate has a pretty sub-par face but her breasts are gigantic and she's Asian so I forgive her ^_^. Anyway, I've been upping the ante by using heavy kino and a few of Neil Strauss' amazing comebacks and negs mixed with a ****tail of experimental technique. She seems to be falling deeper into my heart-shaped box but she's still being too coy for my taste.

I see her in 3/4 of my morning classes so I almost am never away from her which is a big negative IMO. Hence, I'm thinking of pulling. The problem: I'm new, I've never pulled before only pushed myself off cliffs.

Here's where you come in:
I need tips on pulling

Ideas/ Possible Experiments
Leaving a song name and artist on a note- any thoughts about a good song to express you had me, but you lost me

How else can I pull when I'm always seated right next to her?

Meanwhile, I have other plates so losing her isn't such a tragedy. I just want her as strange vengeance for my AFC days (She was the last one I AFCed).
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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