There is this girl, in college, who claims were just friends. however, one night she got fairly drunk, and and some stuff happend (hope i dont have to explain what). Anyway, she seems to be very flirtatious with me, for example tons of kino, and playfulness. however, im not sure what shes trying for. ive overheard her talk about another guy she likes, but then she acts totally different around me. what do i do. Drop it? or proceed with caution?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Proceed with caution?
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