"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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not getting all the HB's you want? not the man you want to be?

Well, sorry to break it to you man. It's going to be really tough in high school. But, you can still turn it around... I only have 15 min, but I'll try to break it down as best as possible...

Here's what you need to do...

1. Get over yourself. If you think that football player and jocks are douchebags, you need to get over this hatred. It might not be right, but these guys are the coolest kids on campus. If you're not tight with these guys, your not gonna be tight with the HB's. You dont want to be seen kissing their butt's though. You just want them to respect you and be cool with them.

How to do this? Its a little late this semester, but you need to sit next to them in class. Crack jokes with them. At first, maybe be a little bit of a goof ball, but not to a ridiculous extent. You just want them to notice you first. Later on, become more sarcastic. And be cool with them. Dont ever just agree on things with them just because. YOu have to befriend these guys. After a while you are going to have to hang out with them a little bit outside of class just a little. just have a conversation as you guys are walking to your lockers. you have to have fun at this stage. you want everyone in the school to know you are cool with these guys and you should be laughing with him. After a while, have something really cool to invite them to. start going to house parties. chill with them. play bp (get good at it first).

2. Befriend the ugly friend of the chicks. Run some game on the ugly chicks, but let them know you are not interested. say something like, "damn your soo cool, you remind me of my friend rachel." disqualify yourself from this girl. tell her you'll introduce her to some other guy you know. that they would totally kick it off. (this guy doesnt have to be real. he could go to some other school in a different city) Your getting to just be her friend, BUT this allows you to get to know her hotter friends. These are the girls you want to game.

3. You are now ready to game. This is a long process. Trust me, you wont be able to game girls with MM or anything in the beginning. You have to work the friends. HB's in high school want to see who you know and how cool you are before they hook up with you. if it doesnt work out this year, YOU HAVE TO WORK DURING THE SUMMER. go to house parties in the summer. run your game there! all the HB's you want to meet are the people at these house parties! if you go to the bigger ones, where less regulating is and all the "cool" people are, you have a better chance of getting into the smaller more exclusive ones later.

You really have to be chill with the "cool" guys and befriend all the whose who. BEFRIEND THE PEOPLE WHO KNOW EVERYONE. you know that guy, who is friends with everyone? get to be friends with him and he can hook you up with other chill people.

AND NO PEACOCKING. you look like a social retard. just wear whatever is cool in your school or area. fit in

This is essentially how you run game in high school. its a little over simplified, but i need to be somewhere right now.

got questions? shoot me a message.

Cheers,
Irie
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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keepitirie said:
1. Get over yourself. If you think that football player and jocks are douchebags, you need to get over this hatred. It might not be right, but these guys are the coolest kids on campus.
True words. If you want to win the game, you have to play by the rules.

AND NO PEACOCKING. you look like a social retard. just wear whatever is cool in your school or area. fit in
Peacocking like "Mystery" will make you look like a retard in a bad way, but standing out by being well dressed will make you stand out in a good way.
 

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I disagree about the part about peacocking. I have a friend who wears straw hats around school (college), lime green beater shirts, and camouflage shorts (who the heck wears these nowadays?!). He doesn't wear these things all the time but whenever I see him around, he's always wearing something just as ridiculous. He stands out and he looks like a jester. And you know what? He isn't very good looking but women find him very sexy. It's the swagger he has that no matter what he puts on, he doesn't care what people think of him. He'll bust your balls and he isn't afraid of criticism. And I'm pretty sure this is the same mindset that Mystery uses when he goes out looking like a goofball.

But I wouldn't recommend it. If you don't have the confidence to back it up, which I'm pretty sure that most of the people on this site don't have, then it's just going to hurt your self esteem. My friend obviously has that confidence so it works for him.
 

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War Against Betaism said:
I have a friend who wears straw hats around school (college), lime green beater shirts, and camouflage shorts[...] He stands out and he looks like a jester.
What i meant by no peacocking is dont be ****ing ridiculous when you first start gaming college and social circle. dress nice, but blend in. if anything, dress just a LITTLE nicer.

after a while you can relax, wear sweats, or dress for fun. as long as it fits your personality. ur friend seems like the laid back type... if he wasnt like that.. like he was a serious person and dressed ridiculously just to stand out, that vibe hes giving off is weird. it just doesnt fit him. BUT because of his personality, he can pull it off. for example surfers dress like surfers and skaters dress like skaters. if an guy seemed like his head was stuck up his ass and was serious all the time dressed like a punker, that would def be wierd ya know?
 

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I'm stuck on step 1...pretty much all the popular guys like me and talk to me at school but I never hang out with them. It feels homophobic to me to say to another guy "wanna hang out?" or "let's hang out" or "we should hang out", I guess I did that a little freshman year and doing that I guess I built and put together our current circle, which I now pretty much want out of, but don't really have anywhere to go...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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