"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The VZA

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im going out with this girl just for the "dividends", but theres this other girl that ive been contemplating a lot. i had a chaance to leave my girl to go with girl b but i was too much of a *****, now i regret, and shes going out with my friend whos a senior so that wont last long..... what should i do to make a smooth transition from girl a to girl b, and if shes not interested in me anymore, how could i regain that?


leave ur comments don juans of the world
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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JSH

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you are a tree swinging monkey, like most girls. You are obviously very insecure of your little **** and the lack of pleasure you give girls. Do not think about your friend's girl, bros before hoes
 

Jerky Boi

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Forget about girl B. She's your friend's girl regardless if you think they wont last long. You wouldn't want any of your friends to try and scam your girl away from you would you? Stick with girl a, and have fun :) If girl b suddenly becomes available, give it a shot if you want. I probably wouldn't go out with one of my friend's old girlfriends but that's just me. Good luck
 

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Hit both of them up at the same time.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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