Problem

[andy904]

Hey everyone, i need a little advice.
I've been in a exclusive relationship with this girl for aroud six months, the problem im having with her is that she likes to hang out at clubs too much with her girl friends, how should I act upon this, im pretty sure she doesnt cheat on me, but it pisses me off,

 

[andy904]

oh another thing i forgot to mention she's a hb 8/9 so I know many guys will try to hit on her

 

[Warrior74]

I'm assuming you're young. Why are you in a committed relationship?

There is an old saying, find the girl who acts the way you want (instead of trying to make her fit a mold.)

That being said, is this post coming from a place of insecurity? Because being insecure leads you to make mistakes. You probably feel like you are in a catch 22. If you do nothing, you don't get what you want. If you try to change her...you will show you are insecure and push her away. I don't envy you. Personally I would charge it the game, but I've dated enough to know that I will meet more women. I don't get easily attached (or committed).

If it were me in your shoes I would probably pull back and give her something to worry about. I would spend more time with my friends and working on my personal interests/studies/job/hobbies etc. Instead of me sitting at home and worrying about what she's doing, I would give her the gift of worrying about what I'm doing. Of course depending on the real situation, it could backfire, but you really don't have a lot of options.

You could also go for the direct confrontation...tell her you dont like GNO (girls night out) and you think its too much but I doubt it will help any. Anyway, take this advice with a grain of salt, you know your girl better than we do.

 

[Grey Fox]

You are more likely to blow up your relationship by freaking out over this. Considering that you have already jumped into a relationship which is a by no means a sure thing you need to follow through on your gamble and give her the trust that is naturally due in a relationship. You need to accept that in this relationship and all relationships your woman is going be eyed up and hit on by other men, its what we do accept it.

-Grey Fox

 

[mustfirstregister]

Post pic I want to see if she is really a hb9

 

[JLW]

Post pic I want to see if she is really a hb9

I doubt she's an HB9. I doubt even more that he'll post her pic up on Sosuave.

 

[synergy1]

I doubt she's an HB9. I doubt even more that he'll post her pic up on Sosuave.

ha ha I have seen what many people here call 9s, and they are barely datable in my book ( cordoncordon your the exception). OMGZ HB 10 in da houuseee!!

All kidding aside, if your girl is going out to clubs, you must question her interest level in you. 6 months and still opting for clubs? Its fine every so often, but if its a regular thing, start asking yourself why she prefers the company of friends over you. This is not typical.

How I would approach it? If she is hanging with the girls, time for you to hang with the boys. Sure she'll get hit on by dudes, but in a good relationship she should understand your situation and getting hit on by the ladies ( yes it does happen to those of us who have something going for us).

 

[Tesl]

You should trust her and let her go out and have fun without worrying about it. Being so insecure will eventually lead to you both breaking up.

 

[runner83]

Hey everyone, i need a little advice.
I've been in a exclusive relationship with this girl for aroud six months, the problem im having with her is that she likes to hang out at clubs too much with her girl friends, how should I act upon this, im pretty sure she doesnt cheat on me, but it pisses me off,

Exclusive relationship?

I assume she knows that as well ???

Depends on the definition of "too much". If you are both young, best to live your life while you can.

Chances are that she was doing this when you met her - but you were too taken with the pvssy on tap - to notice at the time.

Also, pls post a pic so we can judge whether she is a HB8/9, or really a HB6.