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Problem in approaching...

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So Ive begun my approaching 'career' quite late (Im 23 now) and am having some success. A few number closes here, a few kiss closes there etc...

My main problem is that I CANT approach without my wing there with me. I just cant seem to open a set without him.

Also, any guy friend wont do, it HAS to be my wing that approaches with me - he knows about all the terms and how to work a set (C+F, teasing, negs etc) while my other AFC mates tend to just sit around the clubs and 'get lucky' now and again - something Im starting to despise.

(SIDE NOTE: My AFC mates start laughing at me yesterday when I suggested that maybe I just might score more than them on holiday - I said this in a non ****y way. The common concensus is that they are gonna get all the f closes while Ill be alone - dunno why they think this as Ive prob k closed more ladies than the two of them put together. They think that just coz I havent 'done' it yet that Im a loser somehow, Im just waiting for a cool girl - Ive had my chances before...)

Anyway, any help in regard to approaching alone? Without a wing?

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Cheers ESPI but theres some sort of subconcious thing going on. Ya know?

I suppose Ive associated approaching with my wing... Dont wanna rely on him forever tho.
 
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