"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"Prizing" in Relationships - PLEASE READ!

Axcell

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Hey guys, so I can't remember where I read this, so I don't take credit for it. But for people in relationships, guys have been told to make women do things for them so they don't walk out of relationships. They state you need a women to "invest" a lot of her time with you, so she won't just walk out and leave when the next DJ comes a long.

Basically like a gambling machine. If a women sits and puts quarters in the machine and still hasn't won something, the more quarters (time) she puts into the machine, the more she won't want to leave, becausee its one step closer to winning.

Examples in relationships of getting a women to "invest" in you are to ask her to pick up something for you occasionally, etc.

Anybody have any other examples/tips to KEEP the girl of your dreams? There isn't too much advice about it available.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Any other tips and advice?
Btw, I was the first one to post in that thread you gave me - but thanks! :D
 
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