"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Vronski

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You can't send a message larger than 1000 characters. I think some people (myself included) may find that its a too small.

Sometimes I find my message too large, and have to divide it in 2 parts, which is awfully annoying.

How about changing it to 3000 characters??? This small change will make significant improvements.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why would Allen want to devote THAT much disk space to discussions that the group is not seeing? I think to do that he would be acting as a public doormat and since women are turned off by that characteristic in men I put it high on the list of attitudes to avoid. If the PM discussions are that in-depth, just take it to e-mail.

-PDX
 

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Originally posted by SexPDX
Why would Allen want to devote THAT much disk space to discussions that the group is not seeing? I think to do that he would be acting as a public doormat and since women are turned off by that characteristic in men I put it high on the list of attitudes to avoid. If the PM discussions are that in-depth, just take it to e-mail.

-PDX
I second that. PM should be messages - not a book.

:D
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PDX - your own post is 818 characters long. And you didnt post a book.

1000 Characters is 2 small paragraphs, and when you get a message that tells you to cut it in half, its annoying.

Obviously you haven't used the feature yet. Otherwise you'd want to lengther it.

Why would Allen want to devote THAT much disk space ...
THAT MUCH???? :) Just how much??? :( I still send the same amount of text, I just divide it into 2 messages. And even if it increased the prectious disk space, it would be +5 mb of text. ;)

PDX, this is a forum. From the very beginning to this moment there is about 500 mb of text MAXIMUM (maybe 1 gb). All posts combined together. All of them, starting with the very 1st guys.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I have decided to increase the allowable length to 2500 characters. Keep in mind that you can only maintain 30 PMs at one time. More than that will bounce, so you'll want to keep your Inbox and Sent folders as empty as possible. If they're important then save them to your computer.
 

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Originally posted by Vronski
PDX - your own post is 818 characters long. And you didnt post a book.

1000 Characters is 2 small paragraphs, and when you get a message that tells you to cut it in half, its annoying.

Obviously you haven't used the feature yet. Otherwise you'd want to lengther it.
I've used it quite a bit already.

Originally posted by Vronski

THAT MUCH???? :) Just how much??? :( I still send the same amount of text, I just divide it into 2 messages. And even if it increased the prectious disk space, it would be +5 mb of text. ;)

PDX, this is a forum. From the very beginning to this moment there is about 500 mb of text MAXIMUM (maybe 1 gb). All posts combined together. All of them, starting with the very 1st guys.
Well, yeah. I was just envisioning a situation where people started have these really long discussions in PM's as if it were e-mail. I have had a lot of private e-mail discussions on seduction and I know they can get quite long. If Allen were faced with providing disk space for a significant number of people doing that, it would add up.

But in any case, Allen has lengthened it, so that's cool

-PDX
 
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