I met this girl in class, and she shown really strong interest in me. But out of the blue she mentioned she had a bf, but just kinda casually. I have to present about my friends and family in my foriegn language class, and was wondering if i should include a girl im dating and call her my g/f to try to make that chick jealous. And i figure it would show "social proof". Maybe im just stupid but maybe give me some feedback
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
pretending to have a gf
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
LittleBigOne
Don Juan
Why should you lie? She showed much interest in you. So just act the way you were doing. If she keeps showing interest your doing fine. Have patience and be more exciting then her bf. And meet other woman too! Thats your real social proof. But show her that she is just that more special then those other woman you hang out with.
Good luck.
Good luck.
DonGorgon
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Lying is a very important part of the dating mating game... Honesty does not a winner makeLittleBigOne said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It could go either way,
1) You lie but if anyone finds out your reputation is gonna go waaaay down.
I personally wouldn't lie like that because I have done it before (And not ashamed to admit it) Yeah you feel all cool and stuff but at the end of the day your just going home to rosey palm and the 5 sisters...
So I would have to say find a keep a mental mentality of knowing you are the stuff and that girls want to be with you.
or
2) Admit that your single and proud of it. You could even make a joke out of it by saying anything funny like, "Women are nothing but trouble...."
She'll of course would ask why to which you could reply with a joke. Bust on her a little and get her number, the rest is easy. Just my 2 cents
1) You lie but if anyone finds out your reputation is gonna go waaaay down.
I personally wouldn't lie like that because I have done it before (And not ashamed to admit it) Yeah you feel all cool and stuff but at the end of the day your just going home to rosey palm and the 5 sisters...
So I would have to say find a keep a mental mentality of knowing you are the stuff and that girls want to be with you.
or
2) Admit that your single and proud of it. You could even make a joke out of it by saying anything funny like, "Women are nothing but trouble...."
She'll of course would ask why to which you could reply with a joke. Bust on her a little and get her number, the rest is easy. Just my 2 cents