"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I dated a wierd chick about 1,5 years ago. Wierd, but with a hot body. I met her online and we dated for 2-3 months. I don't really remember what happened at the end, but I had other options and really didn't care all that much. One night when I got home she had sent me an email where she “broke up” with med because I didn't call her and gave her enough attention. She also wrote that I could let her know if I wanted her to call me, and we could talk. (Power Move). I wrote her back saying: “Oooooooookay :)”. Went NC and never heard from her after that, until now. Same site I met her on, tho I use a different name now. She wrote me first and I let her know who I was and nothing more. I did pretend to be a bit unsure if it really was her. She comes back with a simple question about something I told her long ago, maybe to see if im mad or something.

Here's the deal. Im not looking for a relationship with this girl, but I would agree to do other stuff with her, and you know what I mean. :) Im thinking of giving her a short answer to her question and then im gonna ask her something that don't apply to her at all. Im gonna ask if she still drives that old car, knowing fully well that she did not have a car when we dated. Just to throw her off a bit. Did anyone ever try this, and any predictions to how she would react?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Skip the chit chat online (waste of time), tell her to catch up for drinks and take it from there.

When an ex contacts you again, most of the time she's checking whether you've moved on and if she can still command your attention. The more you communicate with her through any medium that's not face-to-face, the more she's satisfied that she still has you and likely to LJBF you. In person, she has to work harder to figure that out, and it gives you a better chance to stir up some old emotions which often lead to a romp back at your place for a nostalgic feel.
 
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