"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Power Move?

kdnash82

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I wrote:

Hey You!

My flight leaves out Wednesday afternoon. So if you're still free Tuesday
night, I would like to skip on the movie and do something else. I'm still
swamped with work, and don't think I will finish it all Tuesday afternoon,
which means I'll be doing some last minute things before I leave. So that
along with having to pack for my trip, my schedule is actually pretty full,
but I still wanted to hang out with you.

Anyway, I was thinking about 5:30ish. Bring a light jacket or sweater and
wear comfortable shoes. (just trust me).
I'll give you a call tomorrow after work around 5:00ish and we can meet at
my place. Talk to you later!
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She responded:

LMBO!!!!!

(my name)!!!!!!!! 5:00 sounds good...but, I have my last class @ 6....how about 9 (thats when im out)....or even before 5? I would love to hang out....and I turned in my paper today...so im just sitting around the apt....give me a call when you can...or email me back ( ttys!
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Now, I'm sitting here wondering if this is a power move. I'm confused as hell. I could very well get off work early and take her out, and I could also just wait until 9. What do you guys think?
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You guys are too strung up on making an impression -- everything is not a power move!:rolleyes: Maybe she is just being honest!

Well you said you had things to do - so get them done and see her at 9 - anyways women get freaky at night - chu noo whad I mean?
 

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Good work. She'd like to hangout with you, thats why she gave you options. If a girl like you she makes it easy for you. Check your schedule and see what suits you. I'd hangout after her class so we could have a drink or two (she may not drink b4 class) n I'll work on escalating things from there... Good luck.
 

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Definitely agree with the post above.

She's into you, brah! Go for the 9 oclock one; you don't have a class to get in your way that way. Plus you did mention that you still have some last minute stuff to finish at work... congruency at its finest, my brother!

Good luck!
 

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9oclock. Pick up a $13 bottle of wine and do a movie at your place.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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