"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Mad Ghost

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If you have built up enough COMFORT with VALUE, this can be done .......I found that if they start acting up, pulling shyt tests, trying to play cat and mouse ......you don't always have to NO CONTACT them.

You can play a sucker to catch a sucker untill you fall into their pants.

This girl I had gamed online, POF, got her number after an array of messages, got talking, everything was in high interest level and comfort on both parts until she started missing my calls, not replying to texts.

When it got to arranging a DATE, she started making excuses on how she was ILL ......her flatmate was there .............she needs to get her Uni Loan for a "date" bla bla bla, so I figured she was making up excuses, then I didnt speak to her for a few days, she wrote back some sarcastic patronising message on POF on "why I didnt reply to her last msg"

I started talking like the typical SATURDAY NIGHT TIPSY CHUMP ...............asking her how her day was, asking her about what she was getting upto on the weekend, telling her how pretty and sexy she looked and how I wish I could comment on her pics like FACEBOOK, but on pof instead, just playing the 90% of what chumps say on POF .........so she played along, and she knew this was not the REAL me and she quickly realised the level of "VALUE" she had been putting down due to shyt testing, because she is bombarded with this crap everyday on that site. After I stopped b.ullshyting, she just put her address down and asked if I want to come round, but she only has Titanic the Movie on DVD ........ :rolleyes:

This only works if you've built up COMFORT, it will not work on first initial sequences of getting to know eachother, it's just a quick perk you COULD use if you get held up by shyt tests. Before you criticise, try it?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The key here is sarcasm. You treat her like she is your bratty little sister, that's why this works. The best way to pass a sh!t test is to ignore and remain unphased or simply not take it seriously at all. I can atest to this. I call one of my plates "princess" every once in awhile. Something not every guy can get away with. The key is she knows I'm being sarcastic.
 

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Scars said:
The key here is sarcasm. You treat her like she is your bratty little sister, that's why this works. The best way to pass a sh!t test is to ignore and remain unphased or simply not take it seriously at all. I can atest to this. I call one of my plates "princess" every once in awhile. Something not every guy can get away with. The key is she knows I'm being sarcastic.
Co-signed.

Witty behaviour used to convey or decieve has helped me for the longest while when up against these minor shyt tests brought up by women. I try not to sway to the "Little bratty sister .." but more of the drunkard desperate chump at the bar or closing time, with a mocking irony tone. Does wonders
 
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