Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Potential F-Buddy confusing me...and pissing me off...

Lil Magic

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Long story short, I started the college semester, met a girl at a party i wanted to fck, and decided i'd try to make her my f-buddy. So...i started spitting game, texting and so on ans so forth. When i first met her, i tried to start off as sexual as possible. This is the first convo I ever hadwith her...while she was grinding on me at the party I met her
(While she's grinding on me )
Me:Wow, lol, you should slow down...you can really do some damage
HB:Lol, why, are you getting hard?
Me:Hell yea
HB:Yea, lol, I can tell
Me:yea...You have a nice ass
HB:Lmao
(we continue dancing)

So anyway, one day she texted me and asked me if I wanted to go to lunch with her one day, and I met some of her friends and conversed with her best friend when i first me her during lunch
Best friend (BF): So Janeth, He could be you're winter boyfriend, lol, you know it gets cold up here...you need a little someoneoe to warm you up during the cold months..lol

HB: I already told you, i'm not intrested in having a boyfriend...He's just a friend

BF:Sure...we'll see

Anyway, in the past two weeks, she's been to my room, alone sometimes, sometimes with her friends. At first, she would text me and ask if she could come to my room...but more recently, i'd text her and aske if wanted to come. When she's been here, i've tried to kino escalate into things a little more sexual. Its usually starts of touchy touchy, but when i try to get beyond that, she just shuts me down.

What got me a little pissed was that she went to a club last week with some of her friends and were supposed to take pics for the manager. So anyway, she came over to my room to load the pics on FB, as she has no computer, and there was a pic with her and this guy who was also modelling for the pics. HIS HAND WAS ALL OVER HER @$$!!! I called her out on it and she was like "OMG....he was so fine." So she meets some douche bag at a club and he can have his hands on her ass the same night, and i cant get beyond tickling her in my room...alone? WTF?

Anyway....Whenenver her friends come by, they always joke that im her boyfriend, or say that i like her. I don't...i just wanna fck her and just stay friends or become f-buddy.

However, recently, she told a friend of mines this
HB: He's a nice guy and all...but I don't like him that way. Actually, i've been kinda avoiding and ignoring him recently.

My friend told me and i wrote something on facebook like :"Nice guy huh? Aint that some sh!t. Anyway, have a good life. I dont give a fck." I didnt say what it was about but her bf and hersefl approached me on it on a few different times, but i just ignored them.

Right now, i havent texted her in a few days and she hasnt texted me. Do you guys think there is any possibility of me fcking her and if so, how wud u go about it.
 

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For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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Kal0051

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it doesn't sound like she likes you beyond being friends. And it seems that she knows you want something more, so that's why she was avoiding you. IMO there is no chance of you fcking her, or at least it's a VERY small chance (not worth the effort IMO). Just forget her and find another girl.
 

Ridingthelightning

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She used you for her own personal gratification. No other reason. Women do this all the time. She knows you like her, she knew she could have you at any point and time. By calling her out on it in THAT way you made it blatantly obvious beyond the shadow of a doubt how you feel about her.
Go about your life as if you will never ever bang her, because you won't. Accept it and move on.
When a woman tells you about how "fine" some other guy is you might as well kiss any chance of banging them goodbye.
Its not the end of the world and her vagina wrapped around your pink torpedo will not make life better.
 
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