"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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- my weight

- my overall large and threatening physical appearance... i know a lot of guys here are trying to bulk up and want to be huge and etc.... but when you're the huge black guy everyone is afraid of it aint too cool when you're trying to meet new people

- my voice.... its not high or deep, i just dont like it... i dont know why
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I don't have insecurities, Honestly.

I do have things about myself that I would like to change overnight:

I'm a bit on the stocky side.

I have a pretty quick temper.



I'm working every minute of every day to get things aligned.

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