Post your approach idea's and i'll make the attempt

[AAAgent]

Lately i've been thinking about and why I really haven't been able to find a girl i'm interested in. I've fallen head over heels for girls in the past when i was inexperienced and naive but now that i'm more experienced I haven't found a girl that has interested me long enough. There have been 3 and they fizzled out after a few weeks.

I'm come to the conclusion that i always fell head over heels for these girls because i always took a huge gamble on my approached with them to try to win their heart over in one go, that if it was successful i was so happy. It was about the adrenaline rush and payout.

So throughout most of my approaches you introduce yourself smoothly, get a conversation going, ask to "hang out, grab a bite" etc. as being too direct was too forward. On the other hand forwardness also got straight to the point and displays confidence.

At the club a few weeks ago and I saw a chick grilling me all night (my friend even pointed it out), cute, so i decided i would talk to her. Being in a louge/club/bar you can barely hear anything so i opted being direct as possible and wanted to see where i could get. I waited till my boys were heading out and i walked up to her and said

AAA: (made eye contact so she could see me about to say something. Then i leaned in and asked) Hey, what's your name?
HB7.5: blah (so loud I couldn't hear)

AAA: (smile back) what's your number?
hb7.5: sorry i don't give out my number like that.

AAA: (i pull out my phone and open my dialpad and smile again at her) what's your number? I want to take you out to dinner sometime.)
hb7.5: (she gets a little nervous) i don't give out my number like that.

AAA: alright well it was nice meeting you.

I really didn't want to invest 20 minutes trying to talk to her and not understanding a word she says and vice versa, that was my purpose of asking her out to dinner. She seemed to still be interested but wanted me to build more rapport which i wasn't really interested in. My friends thought i was crazy and said of course that wouldn't work but I got a major kick out of it and had a great night anyway.

Greater Risk = greater reward = more fun (getting one or both of us riled up is what makes it fun)

I know someone did this in the past but i forget his handlename but i'm just looking for fun idea's to try out.

I'm mid twenties working professional in NYC, i mainly go to lounge's and clubs but occasionally bars here and there. So those are my main points of attack. The previous person was in college which is probably a better target area but i gotta work with what i have.

 

[YAboi]

Go up to a girl and Ask "am i sexy?" then depending on her response if cagey or negative say "Im just wondering on a scale of 1-10 what would you rate me?"

 

[YAboi]

Go up to 2 girls who are together and ask " hi , I'm just wondering hypothetically if a guy came up to the two of you and wanted one of your phone numbers would there be any way for him to get it without offending the other girl ? 2.) go up to a girl and depending on what she is doing or wearing make a comment and introduce yourself and just learn to talk to girls on a normal level with no expectations. You might end up being pleasantly surprised.

 

[bukowski_merit]

I found this video about 3 months ago:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-unuqF4uklE&feature=fvsr

I'll never pickup any other way again. Super low risk, super easy... And it works....

Take what you want from it. It's def worth the watch.

 

[YAboi]

Go up to a girl and say " I was wondering can I get your autograph?" . If she says "what?" you say " your (insert famous actress name here) aren't u?" and then carry on from there with normal but fun convo when hoppefully the ice is broken. I've tried this one and the girl I did this one on had an outstanding personality.

 

[AAAgent]

I'll try to do one every time i go out if i find an attractive girl.

I'll pick the most forward or creative ones. I'll check out the video once i get home Bukowski as youtube is blocked at work.

 

[The_Crack]

The Apocalypse Opener.

Hey
How you doing?
What you doing later?
Want to come home with me?

Look it up. you need solid frame, Body language and indifference to use this.. but it will work some way or another. If she says no, you can move onto other topics.
Read up on it man, and post back if you decide to use it

 

[DonJuan_DeRosco]

Lol, I remember doing this once at a house party years ago. It was one of those nights were everything just comes together and worked great.

Only tried it that once though. Hmmm...

 

[AAAgent]

I found this video about 3 months ago:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-unuqF4uklE&feature=fvsr

I'll never pickup any other way again. Super low risk, super easy... And it works....

Take what you want from it. It's def worth the watch.

this definitely works and i was doing it on Friday before Halloween. I'm wearing the red ranger costume and helmet and pretty damn drunk already. I just walk around and start dancing and when i see a group of girls look at me, i just do something even more stupid directed at them. They laugh more and i just go up and start dancing with them. I didn't actually get any of their numbers as i couldn't see what they looked like with my helmet on and i was honestly scared to take off my helmet as it sheltered me from anyone know who i was. I see people do this a lot though.