"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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post-sex clingy girls = regular supply of sex ?

SuperChillies

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it makes sense to me that once a girl is clingy after sex

she is willing to see you more often, which would be a regular supply of sex

Its logically a benefit but some DJs dont see it that way,

I don't see why alot of you DJs dont like this aspect, I mean if shes clingy to you

isn't it better for you , she'll like your personal pet and stays with you a bit to have sex , so to speak, and who wouldn't want that ?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Serialized3

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Yeah, it's nice for awhile, but sometimes they get too clingy and they smother you. It's sort of fvcked up that you just want to use her for sex though.

What I'm more concerned with are women that fvck you WITHOUT getting attached at all. What kind of messed-up woman are those?
 

IsiMan84

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No I would not say it's a benefit, because it doesn't always work that way. My belief was that the clingy ones won't give you as much sex once they've determined your IL is just as high or higher than theirs, as is the case with most women in general. But don't get "clingy" confused with "just wants your penis," especially if you are throwing the correct game her way.
 
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