"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Possibly going to hook up in a few hours...advice please

ElGuapo

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I've never done anything like this before. I was just chatting with a girl on Facebook and she asked if I wanted to have dinner with her. I had just finished dinner but I suggested we get drinks later.

She said she'd like that. I asked her if she wanted to do it at her place or mine and she said her's at 10 (I suggested 9). I'm guessing this girl wants to get it on based on the signals she's been sending. She wants to have drinks at 10 PM on Tuesday and neither one of us has the day off tomorrow.

The time is now 8:20. Any advice on how I should play this? I'm thinking I'll just sit next to her, have some conversation and gradually keep escalating the kino....arm first then down the back etc. Then at a good moment (maybe after a laugh), I'll lean in for the kiss.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Kal0051

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sounds like you know what to do, good luck, I better hear good things
 

Leporello

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Have you met her before? Give us some more info.
 
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