"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Possible to Neg too much?

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Hey, i was wondering if it's possible to neg too much. And if it is, how do you pull yourself out without looking like an AFC?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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the neg can be a double edged sword man. You can use a **** load of it on a girl and it'll get things rolling but if you say the wrong thing you might get slapped.

Its all about the type of content you use on here really, other than that if you're real good at negging and know the true meaning behind it and adhere to it, you would not need to ask this..happy sarging
 

the_azn_fu

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okay, so after you neg too much, how do you pull yourself out without being AFC?
 
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when u neg too much, just give a sincere compliment

you probably are using the neg theory as a crutch for success...it wont get you laid in itself. Negs are not as important unless the girl is extremely hot
 
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