"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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[S]alvatore

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So I rarely post in these sections, but I came across this about a year or so ago. I just finished a workout, and I had to walk back to a major shopping centre, because the bus stop was in the vicinity of it (This is before I had my drivers license). So anyway i'm standing at my stop having a smoke, waiting for the bus to arrive.

And I see this HB8 walking out out the shops,and she had this huge ass grin on her face, and looking in my direction, I thought nothing of it at first. Then she had walked past me, so in order for her to look at me, she had to turn her head 180 degrees. So she turned her head and gave me this "come fu<k me" look on her face. She was a good 10 metres away from me, so then I motioned for her to come over to me.

Now i've been with my girl for a year, but I just wanted to see how I could play this out. So when she came up to me I said to her: "Why are you smiling? See something you like?". She was floored by this, started touching me etc and I got her number within a couple of minutes. I didn't call her, but it was still some good practice, and a bit of a self-esteem boost. So yeah if anyone wants to try this, but it will only work if a girl is already smiling at you as if she is attracted to you. Comments are welcome.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Boschy

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Congratulations. This could be a combination of things. I'm fairly average looking, but because I am mixed race, a small percentage of women love the way I look. My guess is about 1 in 100 are in this bucket. When I meet one of these women, they try to pick me up, hahaha. The two give-aways are the astrology conversation, what star sign are you blah blah, and the oh your hands beautiful thing, where they can't help grabbing them, etc. This girl signalled her interest in you and you responded with a smooth line.

It was just your day, mate. Since she saw you at a distance, I'd rule out pheromones or sweat scent. I think you just had the right amount of relaxed posture, pumped up body and, of course, smoking can make them think you could be a bad boy. Additionally, she was probably also horny or very receptive. Either way, a good confidence booster, as you said.
 
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