"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Possible AW

AcknowledgeDaRep

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My friend (AFC) I and were going to a club and we met with two of his female friends, UG and HB7.5. Anyways, as soon as these girls jump in the car, HB immediately starts showing some major IOI. She continually touches me on the shoulder and keeps vying for my attention. At one point she even mentioned how she was horny and wet, and needed a real man. To which I naturally responded with the textbook "we just met and your already trying to get me in bed, I'm not that easy".

Anyways, we park the car and get ready to go the club, when suddenly the HB starts acting bratty. I was doing some role-playing with UG, when suddenly HB says; "don't talk to my friend like that" in a vicious tone. To which I responded: "I’ll talk to your friend however I wanna talk to your friend". She then says, "not with me around you won't" And of course I say "with or without you around".

My question is, does this girl sound like an attention *****? I've never really encountered one before, but after reading the bible I think she may well fit the description. A few notes:
-She kept talking about how many guys liked her
-She was annoyed when I focused more on UG than her
-She got bratty for no apparent reason
-she was hitting on many guys at the club

Now since I didn't give her a SOI, do you think that might have something to do with her acting bratty and sour toward me the rest of the night?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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KontrollerX

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-She kept talking about how many guys liked her

Check.

-She was annoyed when I focused more on UG than her

They hate competition. Check.

-She got bratty for no apparent reason

They are very immature and have wild mood swings. Check.

-she was hitting on many guys at the club

If a girl is single that is fine but if not or she's on a date with someone and still doing this its a huge red flag and one more check at her being an AW.

Histrionic Personality Disorder looks to be strong in this one.

Keep distance!

http://www.toad.net/~arcturus/dd/histrion.htm
 

JackPrescott

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Wanna f**k with an Attention Wh0res head? Dont give her any attention when you are around her, and if she complains, tell her, "put out, or shut the F**k up", or you could always bring another woman in front of her, who you are dating, they hate that, but be forewarned, she is an AW, which means she is parasitic, she will want to befriend your girl, for the purposes of doing a "GNO" without you.
 

Leah

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Rather than an Attention *****, she may just have low self-esteem and think if she bigs herself up you'll believe she's something special. I have a friend who does this, it's really embarrassing.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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