"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Porn/Looking at models gives me higher standards?

ElStud

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I don't know what it is man, but when I look at models and the girls in porn vids, the girls at school who I thought were HB7's and 8's, suddenly become HB5's, 6's and 7's, because I start realizing that there are better looking girls out there than the ones at my school. Seriously though, I think looking at models, celebrities and girls in pornos has really raised my standards of what is "Hot" when it comes to girls. I think it's because when you're in school if you a "cute" girl you consider her hot, because you really had no idea there was anything better than that. But then when you look at these models and celebrity girls you go "Damn! She is fine! Why don't any of the girls at my school look that good?". So yeah, I honestly think looking at that stuff has increased my standards as far as women goes.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Obsidian

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in that way porn can be good, I guess

But it also diminishes your drive to obtain real girls, and it can become addictive and hurt marriages.
 

drak_ool

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actually, this is pretty bad. Not that having high standards per se is a bad thing, but if your standards are so high that you can't reach them, something s wrong.

Notice the OP is 17 so i bet he can't fvck like a porn star or has enough skill, money, fame or whatever to get with one of those stars/models he jerks off to online. However, he has a chance of hitting it with hotties at his school, but all of a sudden they re not good enough...

ElStud, trust me, a warm and wet pvssy is ALWAYS better than your hand. And, last but not least, a 17 y.o.'s pvssy is better than the clamshell of a porn star who's been getting fisted for the past 10 years
 

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These women are hot due to camera angles, lighting and editing, its an illusion.
 
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