POF Message: Did I Do Something Wrong Here?

[Young Stallion]

I messaged a girl named Pixie on POF.

My opener was: With a name like Pixie you better be something damn small and cute.

She replied with: I am but I dont know what gives you the right to dictate things to me.

I then wrote: Pretty sure the dictionary definition of pixie is someting small or cute or some kind of small and cute fictional thing.

She replied with: No its not you F*cking Tool, blocked for being a F*cking dumbass who makes up dictionary definitions, loser.


Wow I did not think what I wrote was that bad and she took that completely out of context....the name pixie means something small and cute and I was trying to make her feel good because her picture she was clearly small and cute just like the definition of a pixie.

What do you guys think.

 

[nismo-4]

You should get at Naughty Ninja for questions about POF.

But about your post, you should've made small talk instead of that joke about that name. She thought the joke was corny, and probably heard it countless times. That hurt you. You should've used a different approach. And not a logical one like you used (dictionary). Then again, online, women go for looks for the most part, and then again, online women are f**ked up in the head, no matter their age.

I messed with a older woman (MILF) named Zelda and if a young guy made a reference to that video game, she was not going to touch his Deku Nuts, nor will she polish your Master Sword. I waited till I got her in chambers to make Zelda references. Yes, she let me invade Hyrule Castle and I enjoyed it!

Sorry for going back down memory lane.

Judge nismo found you guilty for trying too hard and failure to spin plates. Your fine is 2 blue balls and a strained mind. There is also a trip to Creepview Hills, New Hampshire.

Moving on, forgetting about this girl, and shooting messages to a bunch of other women is the best thing that is for you.

Case closed.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

I messaged a girl named Pixie on POF.

My opener was: With a name like Pixie you better be something damn small and cute.

She replied with: I am but I dont know what gives you the right to dictate things to me.

I then wrote: Pretty sure the dictionary definition of pixie is someting small or cute or some kind of small and cute fictional thing.

She replied with: No its not you F*cking Tool, blocked for being a F*cking dumbass who makes up dictionary definitions, loser.


Wow I did not think what I wrote was that bad and she took that completely out of context....the name pixie means something small and cute and I was trying to make her feel good because her picture she was clearly small and cute just like the definition of a pixie.

What do you guys think.

Stallion you have to realize that chicks online are extremely INSECURE no matter how 'hawt' or 'confident' they may act. ANYTHING and EVERYTHING that may seem like you or anyone is 'putting them down or making fun of them' is seen as a "jerk" even if you meant it in a flirting way.

Below is one of the copy and paste messages I had made up and tweaked.... as ridiculous as it sounds it seems to make them think you've actually read their profile even though you spammed them it and you are making a quick note on their attractiveness as well. Try the below message and see how it works with replies. I never had a negative reply anytime I sent it a while ago (several months) and I got well over a hundred replies and numbers off it. Remember as ridiculous as the below message sounds..The chicks on there LOVED it. See and spam the below:

I’m a silly little Penguin. It’s true! (Hey what can I say…it goes with the whole sea theme) Anywho.. that's beside the point..Congratulations are in order here. If I ever meet the owner of Plenty of Fish I’m going to demand to him that you be paid for your profile. For a free dating site, yours is THE greatest profile ever written in the history of online dating!

I swear I’m going to print it out and post it on my fridge to admire…FOREVER..

Keep up the good work you adorable, heavenly blessed lil cutie!

Ciao bella and I hope you have a great day. =)

 

[FairShake]

She's dumb don't get me wrong but:

My opener was: With a name like Pixie you better be something damn small and cute.

Your opener was kind of weird. I don't know anyone who talks like that outside of cowboy movies or under 65 years old.

Saying that in conversation may come across as quirky (possibly...) but writing it in an email to someone of a certain age may come across as weird. Or possibly as an azzhole.

I would avoid getting cute with your wording and try to talk like other guys. Just my opinion of course, whatever works for you.

 

[Young Stallion]

She's dumb don't get me wrong but:



Your opener was kind of weird. I don't know anyone who talks like that outside of cowboy movies or under 65 years old.

Saying that in conversation may come across as quirky (possibly...) but writing it in an email to someone of a certain age may come across as weird. Or possibly as an azzhole.

I would avoid getting cute with your wording and try to talk like other guys. Just my opinion of course, whatever works for you.

Yeah maybe I need to be less corny and try less hard to make jokes and be funny.

 

[Young Stallion]

You should get at Naughty Ninja for questions about POF.

But about your post, you should've made small talk instead of that joke about that name. She thought the joke was corny, and probably heard it countless times. That hurt you. You should've used a different approach. And not a logical one like you used (dictionary). Then again, online, women go for looks for the most part, and then again, online women are f**ked up in the head, no matter their age.

I messed with a older woman (MILF) named Zelda and if a young guy made a reference to that video game, she was not going to touch his Deku Nuts, nor will she polish your Master Sword. I waited till I got her in chambers to make Zelda references. Yes, she let me invade Hyrule Castle and I enjoyed it!

Sorry for going back down memory lane.

Judge nismo found you guilty for trying too hard and failure to spin plates. Your fine is 2 blue balls and a strained mind. There is also a trip to Creepview Hills, New Hampshire.

Moving on, forgetting about this girl, and shooting messages to a bunch of other women is the best thing that is for you.

Case closed.

Not everything is a failure to spin plates Nismo...how many stories do I have to post about different girls before you realize my problem isnt failure to spin plates....plus this interaction took up about 2 minutes of my life so its not like it meant a hell of alot.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

Yeah maybe I need to be less corny and try less hard to make jokes and be funny.

Trust me Stallion. Spam my ridiculous message to chicks. Then watch for yourself as they start replying. You'll think the same sh1t I thought when I made it up and started spamming it: "WTF?! These chicks reply to this crap?!"

It makes them think you read their profile and liked it and you find them cute.

It will also depend on how good your pictures are to how good your replies come back as. I never got a pissed off or negative response from it. True story.

 

[Desdinova]

My experience with POF has been one date for every 50 messages I send. I got lots of women who just dumped out because they didn't understand nor enjoy my sense of humor. The thing is, I treat them online the same way I'd treat them in real life. If they can't enjoy my personality before we meet, they're gonna fvcking hate me after we meet.

When they cut me off early during the interaction, I count it as a blessing for not wasting any more of my time. I'd imagine that girl is a cvnt in real life too.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

Your opener wasn't terrible, you just turned too serious. Next time you get a b1tchy response like that respond with some sarcasm or exaggerate so it's obvious how uptight she's being.

In all honesty though this broad just seems stuck up.

No reason to bother sending wise a$$ed responses. It isn't worth your time. Like the saying goes: "Arguing over the internet is just like the Special Olympics. Even if you win you're still retarded."

It was his message. You have to play the game and be Zen like. Keep it positive and 'believe' their nonsense at all times if you actually plan on meeting and getting some.

What he sent if sent to almost ANY of the insecure chicks online ESPECIALLY if the O.P isn't a cut up God would turn out exactly like that exchange did.

Before you click the send button online when sending your own messages you HAVE to take into account if the chick would interpert it as a knock on her or offensive. But if you are only on there to start flame wars unintentionally or not. Good luck with your online dating goals.

 

[Robert28]

I messaged a girl named Pixie on POF.

My opener was: With a name like Pixie you better be something damn small and cute.

She replied with: I am but I dont know what gives you the right to dictate things to me.

I then wrote: Pretty sure the dictionary definition of pixie is someting small or cute or some kind of small and cute fictional thing.

She replied with: No its not you F*cking Tool, blocked for being a F*cking dumbass who makes up dictionary definitions, loser.


Wow I did not think what I wrote was that bad and she took that completely out of context....the name pixie means something small and cute and I was trying to make her feel good because her picture she was clearly small and cute just like the definition of a pixie.

What do you guys think.

I wouldn't worry about it. I mean, her name is Pixie for God sakes! her options in life with a name like that are to be a Disney character or a hooker. trust me, your life does NOT suck worse then hers with a name like Pixie.

 

[Young Stallion]

No reason to bother sending wise a$$ed responses. It isn't worth your time. Like the saying goes: "Arguing over the internet is just like the Special Olympics. Even if you win you're still retarded."

It was his message. You have to play the game and be Zen like. Keep it positive and 'believe' their nonsense at all times if you actually plan on meeting and getting some.

What he sent if sent to almost ANY of the insecure chicks online ESPECIALLY if the O.P isn't a cut up God would turn out exactly like that exchange did.

Before you click the send button online when sending your own messages you HAVE to take into account if the chick would interpert it as a knock on her or offensive. But if you are only on there to start flame wars unintentionally or not. Good luck with your online dating goals.

Well I am pretty cut, but my face holds me back quite a bit though which I have said way to many times...so its a little harder for me because girls dont look at my face and say oh he is hot or oh he is average....they look at it and say whoa he looks a little different then they get used to my face.

 

[Trump]

I messaged a girl named Pixie on POF.

My opener was: With a name like Pixie you better be something damn small and cute.

She replied with: I am but I dont know what gives you the right to dictate things to me.

I then wrote: Pretty sure the dictionary definition of pixie is someting small or cute or some kind of small and cute fictional thing.

She replied with: No its not you F*cking Tool, blocked for being a F*cking dumbass who makes up dictionary definitions, loser.

Opener was a little childish and your response to her was defensive, shows you are unfocused.

But holy cow girlfriend has entitlement and self esteem issues (I am so pretty, I deserve a Brad or Leo type of guy!) Anything close to a normal nice guy is going to get crushed.

Don't know much about online dating, but maybe open with a genuine comment, something you like about the girl, something you have in common and shows you are a fun guy to be with. Avoid stuff thats open to judgement or makes her think you just want to have sex with her.

 

[betheman]

OP stop worrying, she disqualified herself anyway, do you really want to be with someone who is that much of a B!tch?
IF she had any dignity, she would simply have not replied, no rsponse is a response, she knows it, can you imagine being around this B!tch?
she blocked you...how must women think a real life Block option would be, it gives them the last word, shuts you the f ccuk up, her = awesome!

you should have guessed what wa scoming after her first repsonse.

women hate being blocked, in future a "ok stinky minge" then block, will suffice, get in there first if you must. ultimately, they are really not worth a second more of your time
thats the deal.