"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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cablecow15

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Well i got back in to pof after Naughty Ninja posted a thread about a guys pof guide.

I followed the layout to making a profile and eventually had a date with a nice looking girl .

Turned out to be a very interesting night , at first we were going to go to a club, then the lines were long as hell , so we went to a bar across the street , then moved to another bar later on. when we got drinks at the second bar some jersey shore reject that knew her came out of nowhere and started talking to her , I heard him mention something about her not replying to his texts n i loled in my head.

we finally moved away from him and after about 30 mins this guy pops up at our table lol dudes trying so hard to be a c@ck block , but I just played it cool since i noticed she talked to him like he was one of her girl friends .

eventually he convinces her to come out side to his car because she lost a ball off of her lip ring , he claimed to have some in his car , she left wit hhim and turned back to me with a stern face mouthing come words to me , I dident get them really , but i got that she wasn't going to leave with him , plus she left her purse and phone there , so i just played it chill.

after a bit i had to piss , so i go off , and come back and shes walking to the table , and its empty , i can see here a little nervous , so i go up behind her and spook her , then she tells me how happy she is that i didnt leave and that she was very sorry about him , she didnt know he was going to be here and was very happy to see him leave , she admitted that shes to nice . I laughed at her and pulled her in and started making out with her.

then her lip ring falls out lol . She runs to the bathroom to put it back in and on the way back gets caught by a random guy ,I make a joke about me having the hottest girl in the bar with me or some crap , we go out to my truck and sit on the tailgate , the make out , her ring falls out again , then i just grap her lip and shove it back in , she seemed impressed that I did it so easily lol.

We then start to kiss again , then the straddles me on the tailgate , i grab her as$ then when she gets off of me , she gets to the side and leaves her legs spread so i can see her panties so i stare to play with her and we then migrate inside the truck long story short , she starts screwing me in the parking lot , then we decide this isent a good spot , then we drive off and find another place where we spent about an hour and a half messing around

Id say this girl is the most attractive one ive ever Fu%ed...

There were parts of the night when i felt like leaving because of that stupid dude that kept bugging us , but I stayed calm , rode it out , and she was riding me later ;)

on a side note , we texted about a day or two before we met , and we were both pretty drunk when we left, her much more than me and she was older than me , im 22 she was 25 , she kept asking if it bothered me , I laughed n told her no stop asking


I also know my grammar in here is terrible , Im hung over and writing in a rush before work ,
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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cablecow15

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For the record , I did meet her from pof so i wont get to invested into it , but she moved to this town and new nobody , thats why she said she had a profile , to meet people easier , so doesnt seem like a desperate damaged man needing woman like the majority of pof lol
 

incognito42

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Just assume that she is. I've got a few right now that "seem" that way and my advice is play it safe and assume she's a nut

Good job dude! Keep us updated. Keep it up you WILL find more like her guaranteed
 

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kudos man.

Well played.

Keep the guard up, there are some loonies there, but I've met a select few decent ones there too.
 

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Nice work. Stayed calm and supremely confident, escalated without coming across as desperate or needy. Worked her into enough of a frenzy that she wanted to fvck straight away.
Very well played.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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cablecow15

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Appreciate it guys , the other day she texted me wanting to hang out , and we went around and hung out in a park around an hour , she was on the rag after me plowing her the night before(Apparently i made her start a lil early XD) , so she gave me head :) , I bout blew her brains our XD had so much build up from the night before of not finishing , the thought I was going to drown her

Ive found im a lot less interested in some of my other plates now , but I think that's because all the others I have are 5-6 at best , Im going to keep in contact with them , but i don't really feel like spending any time with any of them
 
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