"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Pls help me guys......

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Guys pls help me.. v r collegues..she shares with me all of her personla matters.... I wrote a poem on her....its very flirty kind of...she saw and told "was not expecting few things...few things are suprising". I told her before writing the poem..and send an email...she replied like that. One day she was travelling ans saw me...and asked me to get in...after we reach our destination...I was about to give money..she grabbed my hand n..and not allowed me to give the money..in this process Wen she grabed My hand went to her top..and I touched..v kind play each other..3 times..she is grabbiong my hand..and am pulling myself...she is trying to take my purse..And i touched..3 times....she was laughing and neither say anything..nor..moved my hand...out.... And we are collegues..so...v leave dif times...I cant go with her..because of my timings.. I told I like u more any one else in the office...and asked her for lunch....this was in the chat (not face to face).... She gave me a big smile...And :D said " Sure...lets see whenever we get chance to leave early we can go.she said.." Actually she wont come out on sat and sunday..I know....this from last 2 yrs... I asked her "dont u come with me for lunch" - She said: Nothing like that...Sat and sunday I donot know myself...I may busy she said....... So where am I in this relation... She is very close ...shares about her personal..and career every thing...abt her best frnd (gal)...like that Pls do help me.... Where am I...I am dying for her :( BTW she is virgo..am Piscean)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Go back to primary school and learn to write please.

Sounds like a hopeless cause to me though.
 
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Hey troll next time be more creative with you username. You aint fooling anyone.
 
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holly hell that has to be the worst thing i ever read i didn't not understand 1 thing except he wrote a poem which is gay AF!
 
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Pls help me guys..wanna know abt this girl.

I am in love with my collegue.We are close each other...
She had a boy friend who does nt care her and she wanted to forget him.
She came to know recently that I like her
Infact I told her in the chat....and asked her for lunch.

Finally after listening my nonsense she replied "I dont have any issues to come to lunch or dinner.Infact we are close to each other.But I really dont encourage the relation"

She said that my words,actions and behaviour sending her a wrong signal (relation ) and she said that she really dont encourage that.

Then I said we can be frnds...she said Sure...forget everything and just relax.

My que is "Can I get her or not...may not be now....but in future....pls suggest me wat shud I do"

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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