"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Please, recommend me a routine for kiss close

SergioKL

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Hi

First of all, sorry for my Tarzan English. I have had three dates with a HB 8, 23 years old, without any kiss close. She has always accepted to go out with me without any kind of rejection, and since the first date I have held her by hand, with our fingers interlaced, or taken her waist.

The problem is that I have not had another IDI. We always go out on Saturday and she stays with me until 10 pm because she works on Sundays, so I don’t know how to go for the kiss close. She avoids to look facing me, and is always looking in another direction. She is not shy, but she knows that if she gives me any chance I will kiss her.

My problem is that I don’t have a routine for a kiss close, a plan B. I like this girl, but our dates are too short for getting any result, just 2 hours. Our dates took place in malls; we ate ice creams or coffees with some cakes. Please, I really need your opinions and advices my friends, thanks for your time.

Sergio
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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logicallefty

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Grab her hand and hold it as you walk. That will give you a gage of her interest level. See if she continues to hold your hand or finds ways not to.

I never set out to kiss at the end of a date necessarily. I have had many a' kiss closes mid date. Don't think about it just find a good place where there aren't a ton of people around, put both hands on her face and hold it, or one on her face and one around here waste, and kiss. Pull her face closer to yours gently. A little tongue is fine but don't shove it down to her vocal cords. Keep the kiss maybe 20 seconds or so then stop. Grab her hand and keep walking. Repeat later in the date and when you part ways for the night make it last several minutes..

Biggest issue with this, don't think about it, just do it. And don't think you have to wait to the end of the date. You are long over due you need to get on this as soon as you can next time you see her.. Let us know how it goes!

Edit: OP see this is your first post. Welcome to our forums, Sir!
 

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Try and kiss during the date not at the end. The end of the date has the anxitey of the kiss. Just wait for a good laugh and then gently cup her face when you are done laughing and pull her lips towards yours as you lean in. Dont be scarred or put of if she resits. Just tell her " I must kiss you now, your laugh is too enchanting and has me hot for you." Try again. If she resits again, I am sorry buddy but you have just entered The "Friendzone" You are mere Ice Cream and Cake dispenser. Move on romantically.
 

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Best one:

Grab ya balls and let em drop like a man. Get over your fear and man up. When you feel like kissing her go for it. If she digs you then it's gonna happen.

Quit hoping for some magic routines cause they dont' exist in the real world. In the real world it is just YOU and HER, in a room all by your selves.

What happens depends on your ability to man up and lead her like one into the bedroom or whatever.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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