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slickdon

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hey guys. I have a quick question.

what should I do if I already showed my AFC side to a girl I like? I know its hard to regain status again but has anyone experienced this? over came this? i think she is worth whatever i might need to do so any idea will be greatly appreactied. thanks

nick-
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

slickdon

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well to start...

first i showed WAY too much intrest. like i think i must have scared her away.

second i got mad over 1 little thing like a little immature kid.

any help now?

nick-
 

fragmentor

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you're putting all your eggs in one basket here, never do that. Yeah, the beginning stage of becoming a DJ is annoying because you have to change yourself dramatically when everyone around you already thinks of you as a certain way.

Just reassure yourself that this is ONE girl. Think of all the fine HBs out there, millions of em. All could be yours. Stop pressurizing yourself.

Ok now that you've woken up, flirt with as many HBs at school as possible, and once you've become THE MAN, confident and smooth, then just go up to her and talk. Be friendly and have some fun. Bust on her and realise that you're the prize here. Then if it all goes well and she kinos back etc then get that number. If not then BOOM.... NEXT and KABLAAM.... it's her loss.
 

VIVAlasVEGASBaby

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Theres a girl at my school who i liked. I was a totally AFC around her untill about 4 weeks ago. After moving on and working my **** out she came up to me and told she liked me, now we are going out. Flirt with her occasionaly, but don't seem desperate, shell see the change. You never know maybe youll get lucky.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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