"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Please critique my new workout.

polok87

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I am about to begin my new workout regime tomorrow. I am looking to build some muscle and trim some fat. This is my weekly workout routine. Any advice on it would be much appreciated. Please critique it.

Monday- Chest and back

Superset 1:Bench press immediately followed by T bar row.
4 sets- 8, 8, 6, last set to fatigue.

Superset 2: 30 degree DB Bench Press immediately followed by One arm DB Rows.
4 sets- DB Bench press- 8, 8, 10, 12.
DB Row- 10, 10,10,12

Superset 3: 45 Degree DB Bench Press immediately followed by cable machine row.
3 Sets- DB Bench Press- 12,12,12.
Rows- 8,10,12

Finish up with 3 x 12 push ups, barbell rollouts and weighted sit ups for abs.


Tuesday- Cardio, 30-40 minute run.


Wednesday- Shoulders, Biceps, Legs

Superset 1: Seated Military Press, Barbell Shrugs.
4 Sets- Military Press- 8,8,8,6
Shrugs- 8,8,8,10

Superset 2: DB Lateral raises, Preacher Curls.
4 Sets- 12,12,12,12

Superset 3: DB Front Raises, Sit down bench incline curls.
3 sets- 10,12,12

Squats- 3 x 8, 1 x 10.
Calf Raises- 3 x 12-15
Leg Extension- 4 x 8-10, Drop sets to fatigue.


Thursday- Cardio, 30 - 40 minute run.

Friday- Chest and Back

Superset 1: Incline Barbell Bench Press immediately followed by Deadlifts.
4 Sets-Incline BP- 3x8, 1x6, 1 x fatigue.
Deadlifts- 4x 8-10.

Superset 2: Incline Dumbell Bench Pressimmediately followed by 1 arm bb row.
4 sets-Incline Bp- 3x8,1x12
Row- 4x8-10.

Superset 3- Hyperextensions followed by close grip push ups.
3 Sets- Hyperextensions- 3 x 12-15
Push ups- 3x10

Finish up with abs- Plank, 3 x 30-45 secs. Knee raises, 3 x 15.


Saturday- day off.

Sunday-Shoulders Legs

Superset 1:pull ups followed by dips- 3 x 10.

Superset 2: DB Press followed by Upright Rows,
4 sets- 3x8,1x12.

Superset 3: Arnold Press followed by stiff legged deadlift.
Arnold Press, 3x10-12.
SLD, 4X10.

Db lateral raises-3x12

1 leg leg press- 4x8-10, 1 x fatigue.
Leg extensions- 4 x8-10, Drop sets to fatigue.

Thats the workout, any advice would be greatly appreciated.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Diet? That's extremely important to figure out if this is going to work.

Where did you get the workout..bb.com? How long have you been training?

That workout you have has a lot of sets and an overboundance of reps imo. Some of the exercises i find questionable for it's usage. Building muscle on this workout seems pretty fricken hard with all that running too.
 

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I made up the workout myself. I amn't too bothered about gaining much mass to be honest probably shouldn't have said that, I am more conerned with losing fat and maintaining the muscle I have at the moment. I am 110kg's at the moment with 18-19% bodyfat at 6"1. I thought supersets would be the best for melting away the excess fat, keeping the intensity high.
 

I-tallionStallion

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Depending on your diet this may be okay. But really you won't keep your muscles lifting light. You need a lot of protein and lifting heavy to help. If your lifting little weights and running you aren't going to hang on to those muscles as well as if you were on the routine that PRODJ suggested. Either way...I have to see the diet if I make any more assumptions. Point in case...I don't like this for losing weight and keeping muscle.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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