(play) Fighting

[Gubby]

I came across a girl at school who (I think) is kinda into me when I was coming out of the café. I was on my way somewhere, but I sort of paused and asked her why she was always hanging out there and if that guy was his boyfriend (in a sort of accusing tone). Then her b*tch shield came up and she asked my why the hell should I care, or something to that effect.

I replied, "we know each other don't we? What's your problem! Coño!" (means something inbetween "c*nt" and "dumbass").

I continued. As I passed a group of guys that had seen that little exchange, I twirled my finger round my ear and pointed my thumb over my shoulder at her (as in, "take a look at that dumbass"). She probably saw.


So when I finished what I was doing and returned to the café, I'd rehearsed what I was gonna do. With a big grin on my face, I held eye contact and shoved my middle finger at her, then moved through all the other insulting symbols I could think of, without slowing down my walk, keeping my grin on, until I got through the door. She reciprocated, also grinning.

Note, it's the grin that separates the playfight from a real fight.

See how I did this? I didn't lose face and start apologising, I just didn't let her bother me at all.

It was really fun for both of us. I'm gonna go on to extend this into an "argument relationship", I think.

 

[jlr12584]

she was probably grinning and thinking " man that guys a loser"

 

[the_reader]

is that how u get your women? lol do a follow up, haha i doubt you'll be getting this girl haha:crackup:

 

[OfficeSpace]

haha, OMG! you're such a loser... take that middle finger and shove it up your ass you pathetic kid..

 

[Gubby]

Well, you lot obviously are ****heads.

You probably had to be there. Or just not a ****head. Go find some other "pathetic children" to flame.

 

[Adone]

Has this somehow helped you to bang her? Or just to kiss her? No? So why are you posting about something that is both ridiculous and unhelping?

 

[Ace of Flames]

lol! like saying **** you, up yours, piss off, and stfu all at the same time. what a masterful technique! hahaha

but seriously, i could see this as being ****y/funny, in a way. at least u arent afraid to offend her, and it seems like it went the right way, since she was smiling and not slapping.

 

[Soprano]

be an alpha you afc, challenge her to a no holds barred cage fight

 

[j8snx1]

That wasn't even in the ballpark of "play fighting." That was simply...a verbal fight.

I don't know WHY you flipped her off, but that's what envious little girls do to their friends when her friend backstabs her for a guy they were both after.

Cmon now man, you're better than that! If she's being cold/b*tchy, just simply say bye in a friendly way and just walk off. Why stoop to her level and give her the finger, when all you could've done was smile and move on in life?

 

[ougoalie]

I think the age 15 was the first key of ignoring this moron. Are all young punks like this now. Damn I feel old. Anyway you don't get a girls attention by doing the above... later.

 

[Aquatico]

If I had witnessed you doing that I would also be grinning, haha

but I guess we can't really say anything because you're the only one here who knows her accurate reaction.

nice confidence though

 

[Warlord]

That's why I think all of these under 20 year olds coming in are really bringing this place down.

This is the same forum where mature and well seasoned people like Pook come and some high school punkass decides to think he can become a man by reading material and using immature high school tactics.

Go back to your ****ing myspace bull**** and emo punk straight edge high school forum and stay out of here.

 

[Gubby]

Firstly: I would like to reiterate the fact that some of you are d*ckheads. Ever heard of the difference between insulting and criticism?

Secondly: I probably shouldn't have bothered to post this but I, personally, felt it was kinda cool. Yes, because I haven't had all the amazing success as all of you guys, who must find it really difficult to find time to make pointless insults on forums like these for all the sex they are having (I appreciate it).

Thirdly: because it was quite clever. Being "childish" is GOOD. It stops it being serious, makes you fun, makes you unpredictable. It was ****y. And it turned around her blowing me off INTO HER PROBLEM, and a GAME.

Fourthly: thankyou to those few who DIDN'T act like jerks.

 

[ethnomethodologist]

lol, ohh have I done some evil things... this falls under the normal everyday category.

There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with what you did. Just being freaking playful.

damn aquatico and Ace of Flames are the only guys who get it... still alittle confused, but yeah.

"**** you, up yours, piss off, and stfu" hat goers to the rest of you guys. grab your balls, sometimes girls enjoy some healthy evil encouragement.

I know many many many girls out there who PLAY these games as a measure of understanding who out there is "real" and who is "fake". Sh!t test freaking heaven when you can a girl **** you with a smile on your face.

I do it to guys ALL of the ****ing time. Girls on the other hand, I do it all the ****ing time.