Plates, plates, plates

[MisterAl]

Spinning plates all summer has brought some interesting results, both good and bad.

The process has become automatic. This isn't something I have to think about or exert much effort for. It just is. I make calls, try to plan things with women/plates that are current, and go along with it. If my plate count drops, I go out and acquire new plates.

My standards seem to be lower for the sake of spinning more plates. I'm keeping women that I might normally have disqualified after a date or two because it keeps my plate count up. I'm not keeping unattractive or abusive women, but I am holding onto women that I would otherwise have considered incompatible in some way.

I've been leading women on. I keep asking them out and hanging around even when I have no intention of keeping them in favor of my better plates. This seems to be for the sake of keeping more plates and having stuff to do.

Three plates is a good number for me to spin. I'm down to three plates now from five last month. That was too many. I didn't have time for the hobbies and activities that make me a happy guy. Two plates checked out on their own, and the other I lost interest in, then I started a new plate.

These plates are becoming dehumanized. Sometimes I wonder if they're just vaginas. Am I in this to meet good women or do I keep her around because she's gonna put out if my game is OK? I feel like half the time I'm doing this it's just to see how much of her clothes I can off this time, whoever the hell I have over tonight.

Despite this I haven't had sex since my last LTR last year. I've fooled around a lot though. This is good. There is always progress each time.

My three current plates include one which has been spinning herself since June, a woman who is too old for me but I like her anyway, and a new plate who is actually a normal woman.

 

[DJDamage]

Despite this I haven't had sex since my last LTR last year. I've fooled around a lot though. This is good. There is always progress each time.

I would suggest to cut that down to two plates if the other women are getting away and you don't end up fvcking them and then add some more when you do. Have you figured out why you haven't had sex with these women? because it is not a full rotation of a plate spin if you don't fvck them. You are just holding on to the plates and its no fun.

Its better to be hitting at least one pvssy then not hitting any pvssy at all. Keep us up to date and hopefully you will hit them soon.

Good job so far.

 

[decades]

learn how to spin NO plates. that is get beyond needing to spin plates. when you don't need to ever spin plates the plates will begin to spin by THEMSELVES.

regards

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

MISTER AL, you're missing the point of Plate Theory. The idea isn't to spin any and all available plates to the exclusion of all else in your life. You're also missing the point on the quality of the plates; it's OK to drop a plate on your own if she doesn't meet with your standards. In fact I'd suggest voluntarily dropping plates since it puts you in a more selective state of mind and protects you against, what I think you're experiencing, and this is a scarcity mentality in your plate spinning. When you hang on to "whatever you can get" you'll defeat the purpose of spinning plates.

I should also mention that, although it's not necessary to sleep with all of your concurrent plates, you should be F-closing at least 2 of them. Plate Theory is not a substitute for a DJ mindset or PUA skills, it's a tool to add to your DJ toolbox. Go back and read Plate Theory

 

[MisterAl]

I am getting the hang of this. I did let go of plates because holding them was to the exclusion of the other good things in my life. At this current level it seems I am putting forth very little effort and I am doing the things that make me happy.

As far as F-closing, I got rid of a plate that had spent the night. There was no sex, but I got her off a few times with my fingers. She was nice enough but she was useless in bed because she was clueless about how to get me off and had hangups and wasn't learning. She was already too emotional and clingy, and also very Catholic about the whole thing. Bad news, red flags, I'm not going to get involved with that timebomb.

I had another that I moved quickly physically, but she bailed. Something about me not listening to cool, hip music. Kids these days... She was seeing another guy who was more dangerous and rough around the edges with tats. That's what she wants, so what. I'm not going to go out of my way and be someone I'm not for her.

My three current plates have not been F-closed. One is new, so no worries. The second I expect to f-close tomorrow. She does most of the calling. The third is a basketcase career woman who works 80 hours a week. I don't see her very often, but she calls me every now and then and we hang out. I push her to her limit each time, getting a little further. She might have religious hangups, or she's shy, not sure yet.