"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Places to hang out with her?

faiNt`

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I would love if clubs near me were open every weekend, but they aren't so I'm forced to find other things to do. This girl is SUPER excited about hanging out with me and my game on her has been absolutely ridiculously perfect. The club we're supposed to go to .. well .. turns out it's not open that weekend. I'm calling her tomorrow to get some more rapport going and confirm plans, which I have to figure out right now.

I really don't care if it's just us, because I can handle it. I just get anxious when my planned **** doesn't work out and I need some help on what I can do.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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eaglez1177

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faiNt` said:
I would love if clubs near me were open every weekend, but they aren't so I'm forced to find other things to do. This girl is SUPER excited about hanging out with me and my game on her has been absolutely ridiculously perfect. The club we're supposed to go to .. well .. turns out it's not open that weekend. I'm calling her tomorrow to get some more rapport going and confirm plans, which I have to figure out right now.

I really don't care if it's just us, because I can handle it. I just get anxious when my planned **** doesn't work out and I need some help on what I can do.
Nothing wrong with goin to the movies...its usually a very very easy makeout session. Alot of ppl overlook just hanging at ur place in the basement watching a movie. Heck for me, anything involving a movie is pretty much a guaranteed makeout or more.
 
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