"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Pittsburgh

Thread starter smeyers
Start date Jul 25, 2006

smeyers

Don Juan

Jul 25, 2006

Whats up guys,I'm new to the board, and trying to get this part of my life straightened out a bit more.

Moved fairly recently to Pittsburgh from a smaller town in PA, to go to a small school. Just seeing if anyone out there is close by, it'd be cool to throw some of my knew found theory into practice with someone else who is in "the know" and therefore bump up both of our sucess rates.

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.