Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Pittsburgh PA!
- Thread starter RIchardo
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Ol'BlueEyes
Senior Don Juan
My cuz lives up Mt. Washington. He's excellent with the ladies and I always relish going down the Strip for a night on the town. I gotta give him a call soon...I need a last summer blast before the temps go down below 45 and won't come back up until May.
Ol'BlueEyes
Senior Don Juan
Sure thing, man. I'm trying to get some Pitt tickets but the pickins' are slim.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
torqueboxer
Don Juan
Ol'BlueEyes
Senior Don Juan
I hear what you're saying. I go to Shooter's (only decent club in Johnstown) and talk to tons of women there. I'd bet at least 75-80% smoke weed on a semi-regular basis. They all 'experiment'.
I've used it to my advantage, though. I like the looks they give me when I tell them I don't smoke or do any drugs--sort of like admiration mixed with envy.
Where in Pittsburgh are you from, TB?
torqueboxer
Don Juan
Hey, you ever been to Big Tony's in Mckeesport? I was in there one time, cool place, and cheap. NO WOMEN THOUGH? Is it always like that?
I've noticed alot of Coke head chicks in the area also. WTF? is all I can say to that. I don't have the answer.
I've been out of the loop lately, taking a breather for awhile. Thinking about going out this weekend though.
Do any of u guys know the best spots to meet girls in the 24-29 yr. old range?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.