"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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organizedconfusion

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quite honestly , this whole PUA thing is just like any other hobby
in life. Just another thing to learn about and master.
These guys are TOP PUA's because they are serious about
it. more so then alot of people i would assume.

move to LA and live in a house full of dudes
living off of cheetos and going out everynight just to learn pick up...Thats dedication!

i would like to see how the whole RSD scene turns out...
:)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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organizedconfusion

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Originally posted by mroriginal
Who are they?And where are they from?They look like a bunch of average joes to me so I think they must have mad game.
www.realsocialdynamics.com

i am not sure how this scene blew up soo quickly.
just a few months ago they had half of the instructors they do now. Also TD and Neil Strauss have a CD out together,
so i am confused about the supposed rivalry thing going on.
i wonder if it's all hype and controversy just to boost sales in
both boot camps and the game...who knows,
it's all a big game and they ARE players..who's to say that
they aren't playing us? they DID afterall conquered what most
men fear...woman.
Who's to say that they won't play AFC's or wannabe's
out of all their money?
 

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Originally posted by MindOverMatter
Hehe, I take it you're new here and don't know much about the people on this site. It basically runs like this. 99% of the posters are completly anonymous, and you don't know anything about them. You don't know what they look like, and you don't know whether they actually have game, or are just talking like they do.

The other 1% are guys that don't hide anything. They post field reports of their success in the field, they post photos of themselves with the girls they hook up with, and generally bring a lot of knowledge into the community. There's maybe 5-10 guys like this on sosuave, and JC is one of them. He's one of the few guys on here who can provide proof of his game, and wings with several guys that also post here who'll vouch for him. Until you can do the same, most people will see you as another one of the 99%ers.
Thanks ;) - somebody had to say it. JC is going to the top. He's gonna be in the next game... GO PROJECT CHICAGO!

LOL!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by organizedconfusion


TD's ALPHA MALE older brother- this guy looks like he'd
whoop some a$$ smash a beer can on his forehead & then take your girl!! :crackup:
or not........
you sure make yourself out to be a weak and insecure person.
 

Craig Reeves

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Hehe, I take it you're new here and don't know much about the people on this site. It basically runs like this. 99% of the posters are completly anonymous, and you don't know anything about them. You don't know what they look like, and you don't know whether they actually have game, or are just talking like they do.
Actually, mindovermatter, people'll kind of think what they want to think, actually.
 

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Yawn, I suddenly feel the urge to kill more than half of those guys in the picture
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You don't need to pay $2000 for workshops. These guys didn't start out being good with woman and neither did most of the people on this board.

So the trick is to study. And to study hard.

Easy.
 
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